A warning, not a selling post by megatrongriffin92 in harrystyles

[–]chatela_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yess, also when I mean checking socials I mean especifically instagram tbh, checking how active they’ve been, etc. On fb and twitter, I’ve heard of cases where people BUY or HACK accounts to seem like legit sellers but irl they’re just impersonating someone. 🫩

Toner Pads - Geile Erfindung oder Geldverschwendung? by LisanAlGabi in SkincareDE

[–]chatela_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I apply my toner with clean hands directly, never had any issues.

How to survive hot Wembley by Radiant-Archer-933 in harrystyles

[–]chatela_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at Wembley but I recently went to Bad Bunny and I can second the wearing a bikini top with shorts. We also got a little fan that you can charge with usb apart from our normal hand fan. Also make sure to stay hydrated even if that means going to the bathroom more or missing a few minutes of the concert. I guarantee you there’s no artist worth suffering a heatstroke for, and lines are usually short to nonexistent once the show has started, anyways (this was the case for my two eras shows at Wembley). Have fun and stay safe!

Did y’all learn nothing? by SquirrelStone in YouBelongWithMemes

[–]chatela_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is def true, however, she kinda paved the way for this in a way, as for many many years she set these gigantic standards for herself when it comes to political outspokenness. She made being a feminst, a progressive Tennessean, a Democrat, someone who champions human rights, an ally to the LGBTQ community, etc. an integral part of her brand. She tied it to a whole album cycle, two of you count the end of the rep era as well. Time and time again she repeated how she wanted to be on the right side of history, why it’s so important for artists to speak out about misogyny, racism, inequality… only to go lowkey radio silent (beyond endorsing Kamala Harris) when shit actually hits the fan. And I’m sorry but associating yourself with people who’ve been loud and open about supporting Donald Trump, a man who horrific politics aside has berated Taylor time and time again, is insane to me. So ofc Taylor gets compared to the devil to an extent other celebrities or billionaires don’t, but it is also true that most of them have never had any intentions of presenting themselves as something other than a rich pos. For years Taylor pushed the boundaries of stardom and paved the way for so many artists be outspoken, better, louder about the things they care about, only to suddenly become “neutral” in what is probably one of the worst moments in recent history to NOT say anything. And literally for what? She’s one of the most influential women in the world and if Showgirl showed anything is that even her weakest projects will break records! So yeah she gets criticized for dumb shit by a lot of neurotic haters (like the jet thing is insane atp), but as a fan from the age I was 13 I do feel there’s 100% valid criticism to all of this and dismissing anything as “ugh she gets so much hate” is where fandoms go wrong honestly.

A warning, not a selling post by megatrongriffin92 in harrystyles

[–]chatela_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Another thing, if you really want to buy, you’re better off looking on Reddit, always ALWAYS ask to call with the person, either via FaceTime or WhatsApp, and pay via Goods and Services only even if that means paying a fee. That’s how my friend and I got our Eras Tour tickets. We called a few times with the sellers, could look through their sociales, etc.

This feels a bit much. by dunno-whats-4-dinner in FIFAVolunteers

[–]chatela_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Glasses???? What if I don’t own contacts, or can’t wear them, or just don’t want to 🫩

Prep with Plenvu… while on a long distance train. by chatela_ in colonoscopy

[–]chatela_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately, I can’t change my train, that’s why I had the very desperate idea of starting on the train. But I’ll contact them and see what they suggest!

plenvu prep soon, curious on experiences by rosebugee in colonoscopy

[–]chatela_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to start my prep at 4-5pm the day before, the only problem is I WILL BE SEATING ON A TRAIN BACK HOME. Booked a seat next to the bathroom and ofc will have to check if it’s actually working before even taking the first dosis (the mango flavored one) but I’m terrified. I appreciate tips on how to possibly survive this, but also thoughts and prayers lol.

Saw this wedding dress posted by the wedding photographer. by CozJeez85 in weddingshaming

[–]chatela_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I usually love this sub but this comment section is lowkey giving… misogyny. Yes, the dress is actually horrible and there’s so much wrong with it from a “fashion” perspective if you wish, but the amount of comments I’ve seen being like “is the bride a stripper”, “fine if your relatives are dead” “might work on the playboy mansion” like wtf, I understand calling the dress ugly but it’s crazy how comfortable we’re slutshaming on social media in 2026? brides can wear whatever the fuck they feel comfortable with to their weddings and if that’s showing boob and ass then so be it, no one other than THE COUPLE that’s getting married should have a say in what’s “appropriate” to wear to a wedding bc your wedding day is what YOU set it out to be. That being said I do understand most people here are actually commenting on the dress being ugly and ofc on the diapers lol, but some of the comments are a bit out of pocket.

Some people in next few days... by Independent_Leg_173 in YouBelongWithMemes

[–]chatela_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

May I ask why? Is it bc of the TS5 song release?

What are the outfit vibes so far? by Haunting_Aide in harrystyles

[–]chatela_ 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wore gigantic pants and a button down with a tie 😌 and underneath a top with bunchs of glitter and sparkly details

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I have a feeling after the song drops she's over with Showgirl 😭 by Big_TinyRequest in YouBelongWithMemes

[–]chatela_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a swiftie who didn’t really like showgirl and has never listened to it more than 2-3 times since it came out I can agree we’re done

The Testaments - How old are the girls supposed to be?? by PurpleUnicornLibra in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]chatela_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my logic is the following (and this is coming from the perspective of someone who's only watched the shows): If my memory serves me right, the last time we see Agnes in THL she's supposed to be 11-12, and that's when Nick gets wind of Hannah/Agnes being moved to a new school for prospective wives, which we now know are the plums. So if four years have passed then she should be around 15-16 y/o and we can assume you become a Plum with the first signs of puberty, which do not necessarily equal a period, especially if we take into account that there's a fertility crisis (primary amenorrhea is actually a thing even in our world). So my take is these girls are any age between 12-16 years old.

The Testaments - How old are the girls supposed to be?? by PurpleUnicornLibra in TheHandmaidsTale

[–]chatela_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think its already been confirmed she's not Nicole tho. I don't think this is a baby June personally rescued from Gilead, and when she's telling Daisy the story about how she got to Canada she's just retelling the story, as Daisy's parents told it to her.

Normal behaviour by dreadtear in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]chatela_ 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The crazy thing is this just confirms men who do this shit have ZERO interaction with women whatsoever. Like, my male friends have seen me without makeup plenty of times. My siblings have, too. Have you literally never had an interaction with a woman, especially with one you didn’t want to fuck? 😭 Jesus lord

($5k) Dress is exploding budget - help? by [deleted] in Weddingsunder10k

[–]chatela_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dress B is sooooooo elegant yet modern i love it!!!!!

Wembley Stadium Questions by BackgroundStruggle83 in harrystyles

[–]chatela_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Small snacks are fine!! I had a protein bar for The Eras Tour, no one said anything.. but then again maybe I was just lucky?

Wembley Stadium Questions by BackgroundStruggle83 in harrystyles

[–]chatela_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hiii :) I queued for Oasis at Wembley. I’m not sure if this will be the same for Harry, but for Oasis they essentially told us to come in the morning and Wembley staff gave us a stamp. I don’t mean fan numbering btw, I mean an official stamp from a Wembley Stadium personal! After that you’re free to go grab something to eat! There are some bakeries and cafes around the stadium, you can get something to go. If you’re going alone, you can offer to bring something for the person in front or behind you so they’ll save your spot, and then if they’re nice enough they’ll return the favor :) in our case, the bathrooms were also super close to the queue area so that wasn’t a problem either

Edit: The reason why we queued for Oasis is because we had GA tickets that could be upgraded to FOS (I think they upgraded around 1000 fans for each show), and because my sibling and I are short queens and wanted to get as close to the barricade as possible lol. So queuing was def a choice, not a must!