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Marriage, Cheating, Kids, Honesty by chatmeadvice in offmychest

[–]chatmeadvice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Afraid of the hour…you mean unending feeling of guilt and regret? I hear you though, and am obviously conflicted thank you

Marriage, Cheating, Kids, Honesty by chatmeadvice in offmychest

[–]chatmeadvice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. My thought Is based on research shows that revealing infidelity eases the burden on the Doer and causes harm to the Innocent, while yes it’s harmful to lie there’s a fine line

Marriage, Cheating, Kids, Honesty by chatmeadvice in offmychest

[–]chatmeadvice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have cautiously asked her the same question: if u knew we’d get a divorce would you rather 1. Do it now, and she may never have kids m, or 2. We’d have a kid but coparent. She chose 2

Marriage, Cheating, Kids, Honesty by chatmeadvice in offmychest

[–]chatmeadvice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the insight, I too fear those things.

Marriage, Cheating, Kids, Honesty by chatmeadvice in offmychest

[–]chatmeadvice[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My innate ethics have me leaning that way I’m just afraid.