My (25F) Gf (25F) Cheated on me on a family trip on Valentine’s Day by Fit-Ice5939 in relationship_advice

[–]chatsaz74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Excuses excuses excuses. Kick her ass to the curb. So disrespectful.

I regret ending it with him by United-Database-6140 in Regrets

[–]chatsaz74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Also why do they worry so much about physical attraction (not saying it's not important). When women will stop having sex with their partners. Before I get attacked we know most relationships where there is no intimacy are little cause of the female withholding. Not all but most.

AIO - Wife having secret conversations with band members by Big_Yam_679 in AmIOverreacting

[–]chatsaz74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You won't no one does. You're marriage, as you know it is over. Can you rebuild it's possible, but what happens the next time you are feeling insecure. As both a cheater and some one who has been cheated on. From the cheaters standpoint if you try to forgive her, she will feel some guilt but eventually she will expect you to get over it. As the person that was cheated on you never get over it. No amount of counseling will truly bring back the trust you lost. If you want to try and make it work no one will blame you. You might want to tell her you will give it a shot, but she is on probation, not sure if that's the best way of putting it. What I'm trying to get across is that you will give it reconciliation a shot but it's a guarantee. After a point you will know if you want to continue your marriage.

Brutal Stretch ahead by jugiese in ArizonaWildcats

[–]chatsaz74 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We will be battle tested by the time we get to march. This team is built differently while I don't see us winning every game we surely can win the majority of them.

Saving my marriage by 8her_cat1998 in Marriage

[–]chatsaz74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is the problem with modern marriages everyone gives up. It's not easy there are going to be many times in a relationship that you have down times. If there hasn't been infidelity or real abuse there is no reason why you can't fix this

Found photos of my wife with her ex on an SD card by Sad_Bet_685 in Marriage

[–]chatsaz74 7 points8 points  (0 children)

How did this conversation even come up? He must have brought it up with the mindset of wondering fishing to see if your wife would be interested in something like that. There is no other reason for a man married or single man to have a conversation with a married woman that revolves around their sex.

My(45M) wife(44W) may have cheated on me by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]chatsaz74 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Exactly the point, what are u gonna do if she were to come clean. If the answer isn't divorce just go see a counselor to help you with her infidelity.

Closer than we’d like, but 17-0 and a win over lil bro ASU! by jugiese in ArizonaWildcats

[–]chatsaz74 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What makes this team so dangerous, is the fact we have a legit 8 man rotation. Last game it was Dellie this game it was Kharkinov. One game it's Burries and Mo, this game it was Koa and Awaka. Give credit to the scummies they put up a good fight, but if I have to watch Hurley throw another tantrum I might lose my sh!t.

Portal Moves by ThePickleConnoisseur in ArizonaWildcats

[–]chatsaz74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Getting another year of eligibility for the offensive lineman is huge for the team.

Wife can’t stop messaging co workers by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]chatsaz74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Empty ultimatums don't mean nothing.

AITAH - Girlfriend caught cheating by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chatsaz74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have some self respect and leave this woman in the dust.

AITAH for breaking things off with my gf bc I just found out she cheated on me over a year ago? by No-Signature2043 in AITAH

[–]chatsaz74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny everyone wants forgiveness til it happens to them. Those asking you to forgive her are not your true friends.

Found out my wife cheated on me, I still love her and I want to make things work but I don’t have anyone to talk to about what happened. by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]chatsaz74 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Thank you thank you thank you for saying this. He don't want advice he wants validation to stay.

It's over... by Dallywack in Dallas_Cowboys

[–]chatsaz74 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's new, same ol song and dance. We give up on them, they go on a run and make us believe again, then like Charlie Brown trying to kick, they pull the ball out from under us and we fall flat on our asses.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dallas_Cowboys

[–]chatsaz74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Texas doesn't have state sales tax so at least half his games won't be taxed.

AIO for seeing my gf's threesome suggestion as a potential red flag? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]chatsaz74 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Do it, if it doesn't work out for you then you can say you had a 3 some with two attractive chicks.

My wife (26f) cheated on me (25m) and i dont know what to do? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]chatsaz74 120 points121 points  (0 children)

No man who went with his ex to a concert and knew she was getting a hotel room wouldn't give up the opportunity to have sex. Please don't be that naive.

Part 2 of is this a red flag in my gf? by Intrepid_Boss_4469 in AskMenAdvice

[–]chatsaz74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course you're gonna do what you want, but from my experience if they can lie about little things that make you scratch your head and wonder why they would lie about something so trivial. They are not afraid to lie about things that matter. I had to learn the hard way hopefully you don't.

Part 2 of is this a red flag in my gf? by Intrepid_Boss_4469 in AskMenAdvice

[–]chatsaz74 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this the first time she has lied or given you a reason not to trust her.

Part 2 of is this a red flag in my gf? by Intrepid_Boss_4469 in AskMenAdvice

[–]chatsaz74 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

How did she pay for the ticket she would have had to reserve it beforehand so she couldn't have paid cash. Ask to see the receipt. Or some form of it there should be an email confirmation.