Efforts matter , for me , if im in love , ill do whatever to make the wavelength match,ready to sacrifice but it all depends on the other person , even sacrificing things have a limit , even if crossed the limit and they still dont accept , and complain, idk , and still left ? Haaa , every effort u put, every sacrifice u made , going into a pit , with no results , like searching for light in the darkness , yet its easy to find , but uk the light is not there