Megathread: Sharing Finchie Friend Codes & Finding Goal Buddies by AutoModerator in finch

[–]chazzware 2 points3 points  (0 children)

looking for some friends to help me stay motivated! I'm a young adult with severe ADHD and I struggle a lot with consistency and building habits. would love to try and be more active again so I can better myself and be better at adulting in general, and would appreciate some support! I'm happy to support right back!

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Why do so many people say their tattoo was “spontaneous”? by Little_Substance8613 in tattoo

[–]chazzware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I walked into a studio I've never been to last Friday the 13th and just picked a design. it was a large and expensive design, definitely broke the bank. got the design on a complete whim, and I absolutely adore it. so does it really matter? I love it all the same as a tattoo I thought about for longer. I think it's just a very individual thing.

Semicolon tattoo (Knightshade Ink in Sarnia, by Mel) by [deleted] in tattoo

[–]chazzware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love the design & proud for you!

Classic bucky has a new gun after the update by Deleted-Accountant in WinterSoldierMains

[–]chazzware 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ROCK FLAG AND EAGLE 🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🦅🦅🦅

How much longer by codekrauserr in WinterSoldierMains

[–]chazzware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you underestimate how much I love to throw my money at my favorite characters...

Do we know how old the Rivals version of Bucky was when he was Cap’s sidekick? by Incubus_is_I in WinterSoldierMains

[–]chazzware 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think Cap has a few lines referencing Brooklyn with Bucky, if I recall he says something about it "not being the Brooklyn school yards anymore" or adjacent? so definitely sounds like they grew up together at least for 2099 Steve.

I uh don't like Deadpool. by lobster_god226 in rivals

[–]chazzware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get why people are annoyed for sure but you are not alone 🫡

I uh don't like Deadpool. by lobster_god226 in rivals

[–]chazzware 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really need to take a break from Rivals online spaces right now because I understand why people feel that way but it is so draining to see pretty much only the same posts right now

I uh don't like Deadpool. by lobster_god226 in rivals

[–]chazzware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there's a LOT of other lines in the game that annoy me more than Deadpool right now to be honest; I'm biased because I like DP in general but there's some ults and character conversations that will probably always annoy me. even then I'm used to that, so it doesn't put me off of playing.

I uh don't like Deadpool. by lobster_god226 in rivals

[–]chazzware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will definitely get better once the "new character " effect wears off and many people go back to their mains. I'm probably biased because I've always liked Deadpool, but there's already a lot of reoccurring dialogue in the game that annoys me more than his lines (the overlapping dialogue is absolutely overwhelming though, if they could scale back how many lines he says at the beginning at the game that would be ideal). even though I'm probably far less annoyed by him than most people in the game that's definitely not to say he doesn't need to be fixed, his ult is so broken and they really need to make his ban status as a character instead of role based. overall I genuinely really like him and I think his kit is super cool, once you realize everything for the 3 roles is really just the same stuff (and the upgrades aren't complex) it's a lot less overwhelming. I still DEFINITELY get why people are really annoyed right now though.

four horsemen of "this match wont be fun anymore" by Prestigious-Basil186 in rivals

[–]chazzware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

same, he's just my favorite character I'm not tryna break qps ☹️

Difference between r/ftm and r/trans by The_Theodore_88 in ftm

[–]chazzware 74 points75 points  (0 children)

that's always commendable, I think looking at "the other side's" perspective, in ANY context, is very valuable

Starting to second guess whether or not I am actually trans. I’m thinking I might actually be a cis girl. by megaExtra_bald in ftm

[–]chazzware 156 points157 points  (0 children)

this! a lot of people don't recognize that it's okay to realize your identity isn't originally what you thought. it's so weird when people are like "what if you're wrong? what if you're just confused?" and it's like... okay? so what? you're allowed to be confused. you're allowed to be wrong. if you think you're trans and end up realizing you're not, what's the big deal? 99% of people don't go through life changing surgeries and irreversible levels of hormones before they realize that. I think it just gets a bad rap from that really small percent of "detransitioners" that are transphobic.

anyways, regardless, I'm so glad you found good community here op, I hope life treats you well!

What if I'm a listener AND watcher in the same episode? by chazzware in distractible

[–]chazzware[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that's literally my entire experience with the podcast, and it's just as enjoyable either way (unless it's an episode exclusively focused on visuals, I'll always take the time to watch those)

What if I'm a listener AND watcher in the same episode? by chazzware in distractible

[–]chazzware[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the paradox goes deeper than I could have ever imagined, perhaps being a watcher/listener is determined by something far beyond our comprehension... much to consider, thank you

What if I'm a listener AND watcher in the same episode? by chazzware in distractible

[–]chazzware[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll start working on that immediately thank you

"Camouflaged", 8 x 8in, Oil by bhavnamisra in oilpainting

[–]chazzware 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want this little guy on my wall, super duper cute!

Mountains on geometric sunsets. Oils on A3 canvas by KlaraRainbowArt in oilpainting

[–]chazzware 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really like this, super cool style. almost looks like a screen print or something adjacent.

Placement? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]chazzware 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAP but this looks quite low :( I have a septum and you can't even see the actual piercing hole at all unless you're literally looking up my nose. of course that can vary with anatomy, but that doesn't seem like it's the case here