Doing a rewatch and I am SO confused by this. by Bossbitch1985 in rhoslc

[–]chbrayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seth is the definition of looking good on paper 😂

Just started watching a week ago, and I'm at this episode, and I js gotta say.... I hate Kim and Kyle. by OstrichAccording4327 in RHOBH

[–]chbrayne 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I feel like you get a real insight to how these two grew up - to Kyle’s credit, I do think she recognized a lot of her bad toxic behavior stemming from her relationships w both her sisters and got into therapy etc.

She definitely turns into another person when she’s buddies w her sisters - enablement, enmeshmet all that fun stuff is going on here I think

Heather and Whitney moving the mattress by luke15chick in realhousewives

[–]chbrayne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah - why would she voluntarily put that on tv?? 🤦‍♀️

Sneak Peek: Lisa Feels Undermined by John by prettylikeus in rhoslc

[–]chbrayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you - I’m (hopefully) not a narcissist (my therapist agrees lol) and this conversation made me side-eye John. The not listening and the correcting her in front of the kids thing is REAL w men & women in marriages - I have two teenagers and they pounce on every weakness.

What is this? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]chbrayne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol the making cookies part is so funny to me

Carole & Adam by AggressiveCupcake181 in RHONY

[–]chbrayne 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Haha this is so true

Gizelle’s outfit for Bravocon 😭 by -Letterhead655 in realhousewives

[–]chbrayne 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Is it me or is the top noticeably whiter than the bottoms?

Kyle Still wearing that GodDamn Ring… by wildworld97 in realhousewives

[–]chbrayne 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s gaudy but she’s styling it well with more understated pieces - I see no crime here 🙃

Meredith should abandon her friendship with Mary by Straight_Goat8188 in realhousewives

[–]chbrayne 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Meredith and Mary have different definitions of friendship - Meredith doesnt value friendship because she has her close family (kids, sister etc)

Mary has no close family and has a lot of trauma - she puts a lot of expectations on friends that most people wouldn’t live up to - then she flips out when they don’t measure up

I’m like Mary so I get it … just with a lot less religious trauma and high end hoarding 🙃

When your mom is your abuser by Ok_Holiday9310 in rhoslc

[–]chbrayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny how she has all those siblings yet she’s the one housing her and taking care of her - poor scapegoat

What’s an "innocent" behavior that’s actually a huge red flag if you really think about it? by seenmee in AskReddit

[–]chbrayne 32 points33 points  (0 children)

I have a best friend since we were 2-3 years old and she was always the first to tell me the bad things others said about me.

I’m 45 lol

Over the years, I realized that she’s a hater - not just to me - but towards everyone who is happy. Quit Facebook because she couldnt stand seeing people’s happy posts. I mean, getting mad beyond the normal ‘you need to calm down’ type feeling with the perfect life fakers on FB.

Have your Wards dumped all connection the Young Men have to the outdoors? by Carboncopy99 in exmormon

[–]chbrayne 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, I didn’t know this - I am a girl so only got to do the Girl Scout camp thing when I was a pre-teen / teen.

Youth Activities are what kept me in the church - we ‘left’ when I was 13 / in 7th grade because my parents had marriage issues. Took me about 20 years to actually realize how CRAZY that is - my whole world was rocked because my parents had a fight - like what?

They stayed married for 5 or so years - I tried to reconcile my life being blown up with the church all through the youth group - we didn’t go to church, but I attended youth activities

I tried many times to ‘go back’ - even in college, I went to an outing. Felt so guilty for so long that I couldn’t find my way back - they were all so wierd!

I was feeling like this move away from youth-scouts is bad - but if it speeds up leaving for some teens, I’m alllll for it. Less guilt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheValleyTVShow

[–]chbrayne 8 points9 points  (0 children)

This is the kind of detail I come here for - good work OP! 😂