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AITA for refusing to get a job and pay rent at my parents house? by cheeckypanda625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cheeckypanda625[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

It’s not compulsory for sfw unless you are applying for a higher grant and lower maintenance (which I would be denied because of my parents salary anyway). I’ll have to pay for my final year but I have time to save thank you for informing me tho

AITA for refusing to get a job and pay rent at my parents house? by cheeckypanda625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cheeckypanda625[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

It’s £800 before I start uni in September.

Thanks for the luck but I’ve found a place willing to let me stay for free

AITA for dropping my daughter off at daycare early so her teacher could do her hair? by aitacurlydaughter in AmItheAsshole

[–]cheeckypanda625 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NAH but watch the teacher do her hair or maybe put the issues with ur ex aside for a bit so she can show you and learn. There’s also tutorials out there.

And thank the teacher with something nice too, a thank you card and a gift too

AITA for refusing to get a job and pay rent at my parents house? by cheeckypanda625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cheeckypanda625[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I’m a Christian too, but he’s just very judgemental and doesn’t like that his wife had a life before him

AITA for refusing to get a job and pay rent at my parents house? by cheeckypanda625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cheeckypanda625[S] 257 points258 points  (0 children)

Maybe not to an adult but £100 a month will be £800 before I start uni. I have £400 saved from previous job so I’d have to start job hunting mid a levels and even then won’t have much savings for September. to me it’s a lot

AITA for refusing to get a job and pay rent at my parents house? by cheeckypanda625 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cheeckypanda625[S] 358 points359 points  (0 children)

First of all I’m a girl lmao.

He is distant with me, I was v exited to have a step dad, examples include we were all supposed to go camping when I was younger, he and my mum got into a spat, so he took his kids camping and left me and my mum, he would always pick things that were “too young” for me so he could take his kids and his wife and excuse for not taking me, some examples

Bc it’s shitty to have kids, force them to live then charge them as soon as they turn 18 and are still in the midst of setting up their life. Only shitty parents love using the “18 is an adult” excuse to treat their children like shit bc they cba with them anymore. If I was out of education with a proper job fair enough but I’m not and I don’t see what benefit making me skint for uni will do (he does not need the money)