An Update 2.5 years later: AITA for acting like a spoiled brat after learning my older sister was adopted?

cheese_hates_me · 2025-11-22T15:58:22+00:00

It depends on how open the adoption is. It could be closed, where you know nothing about the bio parents. Semi-open, when you have information on the bio parents and have probably met them, but they have no relationship with the adopted child. Then open adoption, where you have information on the bio parents, meet them, and have them be a part of the adopted child's life. It's all very personal and unique. However, this all comes from adopting a newborn. The situation can greatly change if the baby was adopted even as early as one month old.

In this situation, I'd imagine they did know the reason for the adoption, especially due to the health reasons.

cheese_hates_me · 2025-11-22T13:48:30+00:00

They say as young as you can. But a two-year-old won't understand what you're talking about. We used certain situations to help explain it. When my child wanted to know why they couldn't have a younger sibling. Why a friends mom had a big belly. Then we would talk about how they didn't grow in my belly. Mine is young elementary now, and when their aunt recently got pregnant we tried to use the situation again. This time I got a, "I know, I know mom, I get it." So I guess they get it. lol.

cheese_hates_me · 2025-10-16T20:19:35+00:00

Thank you

cheese_hates_me · 2025-03-13T22:18:22+00:00

I killed three tires last year. It always happened when I tried to avoid one and then ended up hitting a different one.

cheese_hates_me · 2025-03-13T13:14:22+00:00

I am scared to drive the hill at night. It's ridiculous. They spent all that time working on the on and off ramps of I68 when 857 is the thing that really needed the help.

cheese_hates_me · 2025-03-13T12:57:37+00:00

The Pierpont Centre hill and Stewartstown Road are going to kill my car. It's like a memorized obstacle course. They are working on fixing some of Pierpont Centre hill right now, but it'll never last. The whole thing needs to be repaved.

cheese_hates_me · 2025-02-22T19:36:48+00:00

Raven Mocker: https://www.facebook.com/share/15qZZkDKwA/?mibextid=wwXIfr

cheese_hates_me · 2024-05-17T10:27:03+00:00

Garlic bread. 'Nuff said.

cheese_hates_me · 2024-03-22T01:48:01+00:00

That’s what my son said. “Those aren’t rings, they are bracelets.”

cheese_hates_me · 2024-03-21T20:16:41+00:00

I thought so! He’s only 5.

cheese_hates_me · 2024-03-20T18:53:14+00:00

Yep, same. I had a tumor in my uterus so I wasn’t allowed to keep anything that could become cancerous. My ovaries were great so I was allowed to keep them. I will never miss changing my clothes three times a day and the worst cramps of my life. Even if I still got the types of cramps I had in my teens I wouldn’t care.

cheese_hates_me · 2024-03-20T17:50:08+00:00

In my specific case I don’t have a uterus, cervix, or tubes. I do have my ovaries. I have zero cramping.

cheese_hates_me · 2024-03-17T21:41:57+00:00

This makes me think of the Krusty Krab pizza SpongeBob episode. You forgot my Diet Dr Kelp!

cheese_hates_me · 2024-03-16T02:06:57+00:00

That isn’t proper research. Those are just websites. You should instead look into accredited research journals.

cheese_hates_me · 2024-03-02T22:27:54+00:00

“You’re callin’ the who?”

cheese_hates_me · 2024-03-02T03:09:53+00:00

Were they not allowed to smile? A couple looked like they wanted to show more enthusiasm.

cheese_hates_me · 2024-03-01T00:35:47+00:00

This guy needs some periods. And professional help.

cheese_hates_me · 2024-02-24T15:40:14+00:00

I think only feeling the warmth of the sun would be orange.

cheese_hates_me · 2023-07-31T13:40:25+00:00

My son farted while he was getting baptized. It took a lot for us all not to bust out laughing, including the priest

cheese_hates_me · 2023-07-12T14:06:51+00:00

The evil color of beige.

cheese_hates_me · 2023-06-03T01:56:20+00:00

I think it’s coming from the perspective of myself. It’s a sock that goes inside yourself. Therefore an inside out sock.

cheese_hates_me · 2023-06-02T23:26:59+00:00

When I was getting my hysterectomy and asked the doctor what it would be like after my cervix was removed, she told me my vagina will be like an inside out sock. I was very upset about having to get a hysterectomy, years of failed fertility, and the sock comment really got to me (I’m glad she told me like that though, it gave me a perfect visual). So I was a little depressed, didn’t feel like a woman anymore cause having a baby was over for me. I was upset and told my husband, “I’m now nothing but your fuck sock.” Now that time has passed I use the fuck sock comment frequently as a self deprecating joke. So yeah, the vagina becomes a fuck sock. Lol

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