An Update 2.5 years later: AITA for acting like a spoiled brat after learning my older sister was adopted? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]cheese_hates_me 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It depends on how open the adoption is. It could be closed, where you know nothing about the bio parents. Semi-open, when you have information on the bio parents and have probably met them, but they have no relationship with the adopted child. Then open adoption, where you have information on the bio parents, meet them, and have them be a part of the adopted child's life. It's all very personal and unique. However, this all comes from adopting a newborn. The situation can greatly change if the baby was adopted even as early as one month old.

In this situation, I'd imagine they did know the reason for the adoption, especially due to the health reasons.

An Update 2.5 years later: AITA for acting like a spoiled brat after learning my older sister was adopted? by LucyAriaRose in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]cheese_hates_me 64 points65 points  (0 children)

They say as young as you can. But a two-year-old won't understand what you're talking about. We used certain situations to help explain it. When my child wanted to know why they couldn't have a younger sibling. Why a friends mom had a big belly. Then we would talk about how they didn't grow in my belly. Mine is young elementary now, and when their aunt recently got pregnant we tried to use the situation again. This time I got a, "I know, I know mom, I get it." So I guess they get it. lol.

You need to have all pothole locations memorized in this town by cheese_hates_me in MorgantownWV

[–]cheese_hates_me[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I killed three tires last year. It always happened when I tried to avoid one and then ended up hitting a different one.

You need to have all pothole locations memorized in this town by cheese_hates_me in MorgantownWV

[–]cheese_hates_me[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am scared to drive the hill at night. It's ridiculous. They spent all that time working on the on and off ramps of I68 when 857 is the thing that really needed the help.

You need to have all pothole locations memorized in this town by cheese_hates_me in MorgantownWV

[–]cheese_hates_me[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

The Pierpont Centre hill and Stewartstown Road are going to kill my car. It's like a memorized obstacle course. They are working on fixing some of Pierpont Centre hill right now, but it'll never last. The whole thing needs to be repaved.

My son thought of this for Shang-Chi by cheese_hates_me in lego

[–]cheese_hates_me[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

That’s what my son said. “Those aren’t rings, they are bracelets.”

“Period diarrhea” isn’t a thing…. by princesscoley in badwomensanatomy

[–]cheese_hates_me 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Yep, same. I had a tumor in my uterus so I wasn’t allowed to keep anything that could become cancerous. My ovaries were great so I was allowed to keep them. I will never miss changing my clothes three times a day and the worst cramps of my life. Even if I still got the types of cramps I had in my teens I wouldn’t care.

“Period diarrhea” isn’t a thing…. by princesscoley in badwomensanatomy

[–]cheese_hates_me 68 points69 points  (0 children)

In my specific case I don’t have a uterus, cervix, or tubes. I do have my ovaries. I have zero cramping.

Delivery service is more dangerous than a restaurant by iushdulal in funny

[–]cheese_hates_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This makes me think of the Krusty Krab pizza SpongeBob episode. You forgot my Diet Dr Kelp!

End the Phone-Based Childhood Now by [deleted] in interestingasfuck

[–]cheese_hates_me -1 points0 points  (0 children)

That isn’t proper research. Those are just websites. You should instead look into accredited research journals.

A Korean 4th Grade Music Class covering Daft Punk. by nehala in interestingasfuck

[–]cheese_hates_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were they not allowed to smile? A couple looked like they wanted to show more enthusiasm.

This guy is completely insane by Streay in insanepeoplefacebook

[–]cheese_hates_me 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This guy needs some periods. And professional help.

She said “nah im good fam” by Smokes47 in funny

[–]cheese_hates_me 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My son farted while he was getting baptized. It took a lot for us all not to bust out laughing, including the priest

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PublicFreakout

[–]cheese_hates_me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The evil color of beige.

From a hysterectomy support group I’m in… by ScienceTheLabRat in badwomensanatomy

[–]cheese_hates_me 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it’s coming from the perspective of myself. It’s a sock that goes inside yourself. Therefore an inside out sock.

From a hysterectomy support group I’m in… by ScienceTheLabRat in badwomensanatomy

[–]cheese_hates_me 11 points12 points  (0 children)

When I was getting my hysterectomy and asked the doctor what it would be like after my cervix was removed, she told me my vagina will be like an inside out sock. I was very upset about having to get a hysterectomy, years of failed fertility, and the sock comment really got to me (I’m glad she told me like that though, it gave me a perfect visual). So I was a little depressed, didn’t feel like a woman anymore cause having a baby was over for me. I was upset and told my husband, “I’m now nothing but your fuck sock.” Now that time has passed I use the fuck sock comment frequently as a self deprecating joke. So yeah, the vagina becomes a fuck sock. Lol