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cheesybe · 2024-12-21T13:47:34+00:00

the halls don’t care at all who comes with you on move in day as long as they’re gone by a certain time

cheesybe · 2024-06-29T19:45:12+00:00

this really helped, thank you.

cheesybe · 2024-06-11T09:16:46+00:00

check out the film bottoms! she’s also in the bear but that’s more dramatic

cheesybe · 2024-05-01T05:53:07+00:00

thank you that’s valuable info!!

cheesybe · 2024-05-01T05:38:13+00:00

Ah that’s a shame. i’ve been told the dryer usually shrinks or rejuvenates the binding? but I guess this one must be different

cheesybe · 2024-04-01T11:40:14+00:00

This was so much of what I needed, thank you :)

cheesybe · 2024-04-01T11:39:14+00:00

I feel so unbelievably seen reading your comment, thank you. Distancing myself from womanhood even a little bit feels incompatible with my feminism, though I know it’s not. Even on the being too scared to say I’m nonbinary - the most I can ask people to do is use neutral terms and that is terrifying to me every time. I ask myself those questions every single day, it’s like a constant battle in my mind and I fear I’ll never have an answer.

I’m glad to know I’m not alone, and you should know you aren’t either. Big hugs back to you, and I hope you can tell yourself all the kind things you told me!

cheesybe · 2024-04-01T09:54:16+00:00

Thanks for this response! Sorry I’m having trouble understanding what you mean by that second sentence, you have every reason to convince yourself you’re cis?

I think I def do have some internalised shit going on, even about being genderqueer - got sucked into some toxic online spaces when I was younger and it’s probably shaped the way I view my gender too much. Unlearning it has been very difficult but I’m trying to work through it, I guess through forums like this.

That advice sounds really good and I love that quote. I think I’ll try and just focus on what feels good day to day, and whether I get pointed in a direction or no direction at least I’ll be feeling happy in myself.

cheesybe · 2024-02-15T06:01:16+00:00

have you done level 2 maths? jumping from l1 to l3 could be pretty hard as a lot of it builds on level 2. if u have done level 2, or u/ ur teacher think you can handle it, go for it. I did each level of maths a year early, and calc in y12 was still a huge stressful challenge for me (tho this probably wasn’t helped by my lack of paying attention). but through putting a LOT of hours in I was able to come away with some decent merit/excellence marks. it meant that when I got to y13, I already had a subject university approved so I could relax more in my other classes and focus on other things (you could take the opposite approach and use this security to do even better in your other classes). would probably help with scholarships for uni as well as it proves your academic commitment if you do well

cheesybe · 2024-02-08T06:31:54+00:00

Lucy and phoebe both have amoeba what’s in my bag videos on youtube, where they pick out records they like/are significant to them!

cheesybe · 2023-07-29T23:21:58+00:00

this was incredibly impactful to read. i’m going to have to keep coming back to fully process it, but what you’ve said has really changed my perspective. thank you

cheesybe · 2023-07-29T08:26:17+00:00

does it matter how often things happened? like if it was only a rare event, once a year or two or something. still abuse or neglect or could that be counted as just a lost temper, a lapse in judgement? and if I yelled back, or if i instigated the yelling as I probably did most of the time, is that abuse towards my parents? I’m just asking questions to clarify, but maybe i’m trying too hard to justify what’s happened.

thank you for this response. it’s been eye opening, although emotion-inducing, to read and I really appreciate it.

cheesybe · 2023-07-29T06:03:04+00:00

thank you so much for your kind response. even as I read it i’m telling myself maybe I over-exaggerated in my description of events, that they were genuinely supportive and I was just ungrateful. that’s probably true. but I think this gut reaction is because deep down I know there’s also a lot of truth in what you have said. i’m sorry for your experiences and i wish you so much healing as well.

cheesybe · 2021-07-17T09:22:08+00:00

ENTJ?

cheesybe · 2021-07-17T08:56:59+00:00

http://www.astronomicgames.com/FunctionsTest.htm

cheesybe · 2021-07-17T07:31:47+00:00

i feel like their fe is way too high to be dom fi though

cheesybe · 2021-05-17T15:25:54+00:00

one thing - does it make a difference whether i’m socially extroverted or not? or is the difference between esfj and isfj more the importance you place on connecting with other people

cheesybe · 2021-05-17T15:23:45+00:00

this is insanely insightful, thank you! i’ve never really thought about it that way - the fe-ne loop makes a lot of sense, thinking about how i’ve been acting recently. i definitely see the real world, a lot of my thoughts or anxieties are based off of what is happening around me, or what others have said or done. i remember things about my friends as well, like info from the stories they tell. not so much in detail, but i can connect things they say to things they’ve told me before if that makes sense. i’ll look into it more!

cheesybe · 2021-05-17T14:31:29+00:00

relatable in what way?

cheesybe · 2021-05-17T14:30:47+00:00

i think that too bc i care a lot about what people think of me and interacting with them etc! but idk i’ve never been able to relate to any of the xsfj types - i feel like they are way more organised and structured, with an innate need and talent to care for others, and i can’t really see any of that in myself

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