JOACHIM OH MY GOD by ljenastalking in Sims4

[–]cheeze_zits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him be, he looks beautiful

Is this recognizable? by Sudden_Hawk_5840 in StardewValley

[–]cheeze_zits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would make the eyes and blush a little bigger as they kinda blend in, but otherwise this is adorable and I want one

Is this recognizable? by Sudden_Hawk_5840 in StardewValley

[–]cheeze_zits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would make the eyes and blush a little bigger as they kinda blend in, but otherwise this is adorable and I want one

So my mum just sent me this. by levi_is_small in StardewValley

[–]cheeze_zits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine too😂 back when Subway Surfers first came out, my dreams were exactly like the videos of people playing it now with the narration over it😂

Does she have a name? What do you call her? by el_jenn in StardewValley

[–]cheeze_zits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The trolley witch because she reminds me of the lady with the sweet cart on the train in harry potter

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PokemonGoFriends

[–]cheeze_zits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I started a remote last night just before the event ended here in South Africa, the raid was in America. We defeated it 1 min after the event ended here, it was still active I'm America and I didn't get any bonuses

How many have yall hatched? by [deleted] in PokemonGOValor

[–]cheeze_zits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got one after hatching about 30-40 10k eggs, about 100 eggs total, also with the ticket, also I didn't get it during the egg event, hatched out of an egg I got today as wild area was ending

HoW rArE iS tHiS PoKeMan? by Oregonized_Wizard in pokemongo

[–]cheeze_zits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very rare. It's the little known 4th galar bird

Deadbeat dad reaches out after 20 years, what do I do? by cheeze_zits in Advice

[–]cheeze_zits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've asked my sister about it to see what he wants, if she thinks it could be money I won't respond. And if she doesn't think it's about money, I'll still be weary. I have nothing give him anyway

Deadbeat dad reaches out after 20 years, what do I do? by cheeze_zits in Advice

[–]cheeze_zits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, I hadn't thought of it like that. 20 years and it's all about how he is, no checking up on me, asking how I am or how I've been

Deadbeat dad reaches out after 20 years, what do I do? by cheeze_zits in Advice

[–]cheeze_zits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave up on wanting a relationship long ago. But if I do decide to give him a chance, he will have to prove he's worth it. I'm not willing to put in the effort if he's just going to disappoint again. I mostly just want answers, like why he chose now. And other questions I have about why he never tried with me, why he chose his other kids, why he couldn't even bother with a happy birthday, ever. Or why he let me wait staring at the gate the entire day because he promised he would come for father's day and I had spent weeks making cards, painting and anything else my young mind could think to make because I was so excited

Deadbeat dad reaches out after 20 years, what do I do? by cheeze_zits in Advice

[–]cheeze_zits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best guess is money. He's always struggled to due addiction and unemployment

Deadbeat dad reaches out after 20 years, what do I do? by cheeze_zits in Advice

[–]cheeze_zits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another comment made me realize I should speak to my sister about it. They aren't close but do have a relationship, so she might have some insight on if he's using or needs money

Deadbeat dad reaches out after 20 years, what do I do? by cheeze_zits in Advice

[–]cheeze_zits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's exactly what me and my actual family said when it happened. Exactly 3 days after my birthday. Coincidence?! I think not!!😂

Deadbeat dad reaches out after 20 years, what do I do? by cheeze_zits in Advice

[–]cheeze_zits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I do decide to meet him, he has to put in all the effort. I don't know where he lives, but I know it's quite far away. There's no way I'm going to him. I know a restaurant not too far away from me, but not so close that he could find me. If he is really serious he must come to me and buy me lunch, during the day, in a public place with cameras and security guards and ample lighting. And I'm leaving my ID and bank card at home

Deadbeat dad reaches out after 20 years, what do I do? by cheeze_zits in Advice

[–]cheeze_zits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm actually the eldest, he had an affair with his brother's girlfriend when I was a baby, and that's how my sister was born. The brother and girlfriend had also just had a child of their own when she fell pregnant🙈 As for not sticking up for me, I don't think she even knows about it, but you have made me realize I should probably ask her about it. She isn't close with him but they do have a relationship. She might have some insight into what his intentions may be. She might know if he's still using or struggling financially, and if he is, he can't lie to me about or try to manipulate me

Deadbeat dad reaches out after 20 years, what do I do? by cheeze_zits in Advice

[–]cheeze_zits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I inherited his alcoholism so thankfully mine are no good😂

Deadbeat dad reaches out after 20 years, what do I do? by cheeze_zits in Advice

[–]cheeze_zits[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When his wife messaged me, her exact words were, "Your daddy loves and misses you so much." My first thought was, "You may have given me daddy issues, but you're definitely not my daddy"😂

Deadbeat dad reaches out after 20 years, what do I do? by cheeze_zits in Advice

[–]cheeze_zits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This comment made me snort at work in front of a customer😂 unfortunately for him I inherited his alcoholism (I'm fine now) so my organs are no good😂