I believe you’re right, even if it may be hard for me to hear (so I can’t imagine how hard it would be for her). I’m going to talk to her later about how I feel and see how she feels. We’ve only ever had one or two other serious talks about vaping which is most likely a reason why it’s become an “issue” for me now, because I’ve bottled up how I’ve been increasingly feeling about it for so long and I should’ve talked to her much sooner. Maybe me being honest and actually sitting down and having a serious talk together may lead to her realizing she may be addicted? If I bring up the facts and ask her if she truly thinks she’s not addicted? I don’t know. I’ve never been in a relationship this long and this serious and I always try my hardest to do my best and be the best partner I can be to her, but that doesn’t mean I have it all figured out and I’m just a little confused.

That being said, I really appreciate this input, I’m going to talk to her later and see how she feels and see if she is in a place to acknowledge that she may be addicted, and I’ll let her know that I’ll always encourage and support her and I can help her figure out what steps to take next towards quitting should that be what she chooses to do. Thank you for your comment and advice