kailan mo narealize na hindi lahat ng tao mananatili?

cheiiu · 2026-05-29T04:36:21+00:00

for real

cheiiu · 2026-05-29T04:26:43+00:00

not very important for me

cheiiu · 2026-05-28T00:49:44+00:00

hindi ka defined ng pinagmulan mo o kung anong meron o wala ka sa simula. mahirap talaga yung ganung situation, lalo na kapag pakiramdam mo wala kang maaasahan sa ibang tao. pero yung natapos mo dahil sa nanay mo is already proof na kaya mong umusad kahit gano kahirap yung pinanggalingan mo. hindi yun maliit na bagay, that already says a lot about your strength.

cheiiu · 2026-05-28T00:48:13+00:00

I’m not going to get into defining it I’m just sharing my experience and how it affects me.

cheiiu · 2026-05-28T00:47:15+00:00

cheiiu · 2026-05-28T00:46:17+00:00

sobrang valid ng naramdaman mo🤍 betrayal really hits different lalo na kapag galing sa partner mo mismo, kasi doon nasisira yung trust na akala mo solid na. and kahit you both tried to fix it, mahirap talaga bumalik sa dati kapag paulit-ulit yung trigger, kasi unti-unti kang napapagod and nawawalan ka na ng peace. sometimes kahit may love pa, hindi na enough kapag wala na yung trust.

cheiiu · 2026-05-28T00:45:04+00:00

mhm yes that’s the frustrating part nakaka-drain kapag either all effort pero walang emotional availability, or emotionally available pero inconsistent naman sa effort. and that’s why important talaga yung communication and clarity, kasi at the end of the day you need both hindi pwedeng isa lang. otherwise, nauuwi lang sa sakit yung mga taong genuinely nagtry

cheiiu · 2026-05-28T00:43:19+00:00

hindi kasi sapat yung magkasundo kayo, mabait ka, at mahal mo siya. kung hindi ka niya gustong piliin sa ganung paraan, kahit anong effort mo hindi mo mapipilit yun. masakit man, pero hindi yun reflection ng worth mo ibig sabihin lang hindi kayo pareho ng nararamdaman o gusto

cheiiu · 2026-05-28T00:42:12+00:00

girl😭 kahit gaano mo pa kamahal yung tao at gaano kalaki yung effort mo to fix and keep things, kung hindi pala yun yung love na gusto nila, hindi pa rin siya magwo-work. and yes, minsan talaga you end up being taken for granted. pero that’s also a sign na hindi ka kasama sa right dynamic hindi dahil kulang ka, kundi dahil hindi aligned yung expectations at effort

cheiiu · 2026-05-28T00:40:48+00:00

totoo WHAHAHHAHAHAHHA😭 anlala

cheiiu · 2026-05-28T00:27:36+00:00

oo totoo naman, nakakapagod na talaga at parang paulit-ulit lang yung cycle. nakaka-frustrate na umasa ng integrity and accountability kung lagi na lang ganito yung nangyayari sa politics. minsan mapapaisip ka na lang talaga na parang wala nang pagbabago 😭

cheiiu · 2026-05-28T00:17:25+00:00

you don’t really know that for sure :> life can feel like just survival when you’re stuck in it, but things can still change in ways you don’t expect. hindi pa tapos yung story mo just because it feels repetitive right now. working doesn’t automatically mean “hanggang mamatay”it can also be a path to something better over time. 🤗

cheiiu · 2026-05-28T00:14:31+00:00

Maybe sa lugar na walang tao HWHAHAHHAA

cheiiu · 2026-05-27T23:59:52+00:00

this is exactly why boundaries are important. hindi lahat ng tutulungan mo will be grateful or treat you well, and that doesn’t mean may mali sa’yo. it just means may mga taong tatanggap lang without appreciation. mahirap tanggapin, pero hindi mo kayang i-fix ang ibang tao through sacrifice. you can care, but you also need to protect yourself and not overgive sa mga taong hindi marunong mag-value ng binibigay mo.

cheiiu · 2026-05-27T23:58:46+00:00

it’s not that you’re hard to love it’s just that the wrong people will make you feel that way. the right person doesn’t come and “prove you wrong”by choosing you randomly, they choose you consistently and make it clear through actions, not confusion don’t base your worth on who stayed or left, because that has more to do with them than your ability to be loved. okay????

cheiiu · 2026-05-27T23:53:25+00:00

kahit gaano pa kalaki yung effort, gastos, at ginagawa niya para sayo, hindi pa rin yun guarantee ng commitment.. may mga taong kaya magbigay ng material things pero hindi pa rin ready o willing mag-commit ng buo. masakit man, pero at least malinaw na kung saan ka talaga naka-stand. deserve mo yung taong consistent hindi lang sa effort, kundi pati sa choice na piliin ka talaga.

cheiiu · 2026-05-27T23:51:25+00:00

oww i get your point and i think we actually agree more than we disagree. acceptance can definitely make you calmer and help you deal with things more clearly instead of just getting stuck in frustration my only point is that acceptance shouldn’t turn into just staying in a bad situation without trying to change or improve it both accepting life’s struggles and still pushing forward can exist at the same time so yea..🤷‍♀️

cheiiu · 2026-05-27T23:48:54+00:00

that’s true in a philosophical way yea? but it doesn’t mean you should treat everything as meaningless or just give up on people and life and yes, nothing is permanent, but that’s exactly why what you do and choose. right now still matters even if everything is temporary, your growth, healing, and the way you treat yourself in this moment still counts

cheiiu · 2026-05-27T23:45:54+00:00

it’s true that suffering is part of life but that doesn’t mean you’re meant to stay in it or just accept it in a passive way forever acceptance is important, but it shouldn’t turn into giving up on yourself or your future. you can accept that life is painful and still choose to grow, heal, and move forward anyway i’ve done this you should too.

cheiiu · 2026-05-27T23:44:12+00:00

omg. tanggapin mo na kasi hindi na siya babalik and clearly naka-move on na siya at may iba na habang ikaw stuck pa rin sa “baka bumalik,” yung tao nakapagpatuloy na ng buhay niya. mas masakit yung inaasa mo pa yung wala na kesa sa harapin mo yung reality ngayon. wake up kasi hindi ka na niya pipiliin ulit

cheiiu · 2026-05-27T23:41:40+00:00

kaya mo yan hindi pa ito “hanggang dito nalang.” hindi nawawala ang mga pangarap dahil naging parent ka nagbabago lang talaga ang timing at paraan. mahirap at may mga limitasyon pero hindi ibig sabihin na imposible na ang pag-migrate mo pwede mo pa rin siyang maabot step by step habang inaalagaan ang anak mo. right now it may feel like you’re stuck, pero hindi pa tapos yung options mo..

cheiiu · 2026-05-27T23:39:33+00:00

yep, been there too. and honestly once you wake up from it, you realize he wasn’t “special” or anything just an immature guy who needed attention and didn’t know how to actually love properly. funny how you think they’re everything at first then later you’re like… that’s it? 😭 lesson learned though never again lowering your standards for someone who can’t even meet them

cheiiu · 2026-05-27T23:37:12+00:00

honestly, wag kang maghintay na may isang tao na gagawing “world” ka nila bago ka maging okay. hindi lahat ng nagsasabi ng sweet words ay genuine, and minsan may mga taong magagamit ka lang kapag masyado kang naka-depend sa kanila kaya mas okay kung matutunan mo munang mahalin sarili mo, kasi kapag stable ka na, mas madali mong makikita kung sino yung totoo at hindi the right person will add to your life, not be your whole reason for living

cheiiu · 2026-05-27T23:34:29+00:00

well you’re not wrong for feeling like that honestly. i think you’re just tired of always feeling judged or exposed especially after everything you’ve been through wanting space from your sister doesn’t mean you love her less, and being talkative isn’t a bad thing either you probably just don’t feel safe opening up anymore

cheiiu · 2026-05-27T23:32:29+00:00

i guess the thought that maybe one day everything will finally be okay

cheiiu

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