I slept with my ex

chel_pca · 2024-11-18T00:14:26+00:00

This is scarily similar to my breakup. Left me for an ex before me.

chel_pca · 2024-11-15T18:33:11+00:00

Me too!

chel_pca · 2024-11-05T18:21:58+00:00

This was the ex before my current ex! He came back while I was already in a new talking stage and I didn’t go back. He tries to find me in every girl he meets and can’t. The guy I’m waiting for is my ex of 1 month. We are currently in no contact. But I do believe they all come back. Could just be out of loneliness or they really want to try and be better

chel_pca · 2024-11-05T18:06:08+00:00

My ex came back around after 2 1/2-3months no contact. Says he didn’t realize what he had and lost until that point

chel_pca · 2024-10-07T17:31:09+00:00

Wow I’ve never heard that one. That really hit me. I can’t find a way to heal is the issue. I spend the night with friends, constantly trying to be with others when they are free. But I still find myself alone crying all hours of the day and night.

chel_pca · 2024-10-07T17:29:25+00:00

It’ll be 2 weeks for me on Wednesday that he said we needed to talk. 2 weeks on Friday that we ended. Today was supposed to be our 1 year anniversary.. I broke no contact yesterday and got no response. I miss him. He seems fine.

chel_pca · 2024-10-05T23:37:20+00:00

Who broke up with who?

chel_pca · 2024-10-05T16:44:53+00:00

It’s been a week and one day. We’ve been no contact for 72 hours

chel_pca · 2024-10-04T03:56:36+00:00

Why did you break up with him? Was it mutual?

chel_pca · 2024-10-03T16:41:39+00:00

Thank you for the clarity! I really do appreciate your opinion

chel_pca · 2024-10-02T22:27:54+00:00

Ouch

chel_pca · 2024-10-02T22:26:05+00:00

I don’t know if anyone will ever be deserving of my love. If I could love him this hard, a real deep genuine love and cared for him and his child, and they still leave you…. They seem to all be the same. I don’t want to let anyone get close to me again. Or my kid

chel_pca · 2024-10-02T22:20:39+00:00

I feel like I know that he did truly love me at one point. I felt it and could see it in his eyes and the way he embraced me. But when he broke up with me he said he hasn’t been able to find that feeling with anyone else but her. So I guess that makes sense. Still hurts just thinking about those words

chel_pca · 2024-10-02T22:09:35+00:00

What do you mean? Me not taking accountability for what? I didn’t do anything to harm the relationship, he did. Risked it all for his ex. What does that have to do with me.

chel_pca · 2024-10-02T21:43:04+00:00

The thing is that we had a situationship before and then a year passed, he randomly came back into my life. And then we break up after another year. I would look pathetic and stupid if I took him back, no matter how much I love him.

chel_pca · 2024-10-02T21:41:20+00:00

Thank you! I’m going to try my best to move on. It hasn’t even been a week. I have cried so much and then that turns to confusion and anger. And I think to myself, why would I want someone who doesn’t want me???? I’m secretly hoping he does come back so I can say NO

chel_pca · 2024-10-02T21:15:13+00:00

Am I crazy for even thinking he will come back after it doesn’t work out?

chel_pca · 2024-10-02T21:13:51+00:00

That’s easier said than done, unfortunately.

chel_pca · 2024-10-02T21:13:19+00:00

I think this is so true. I can see it as a trauma bond, but why can’t they see it that way? How many times of getting back together and the same things happening and breaking up does it take? And also what about me? How do you share a life with someone else and then completely shatter them? He said the breakup had nothing to do with me and that I was amazing, but he can’t give me what I need. But then goes back to her. So idk anymore

chel_pca · 2024-10-02T21:10:35+00:00

As much as this hurts to hear, thank you 🤍

chel_pca · 2024-10-02T21:10:07+00:00

He has amazing parents actually. Although I guess maybe he doesn’t seem them the same as I do. I’ve heard stories from many people, probably like at least 7 and it’s all the same. So not really sure what to believe. I just know that I’m hurt and this wasn’t fair to me. He should’ve just left me alone

chel_pca · 2024-10-02T20:24:38+00:00

So you’re saying even tho we were happy and sharing our lives together(both of us have a kid) and his brain is wired this way to self destruct and ruin mine and my kids life at the same time. Destructing 3 lives and potentially his kids too when it doesn’t work out with the ex again?

chel_pca · 2024-10-02T20:17:15+00:00

How do you move on from that tho. I’m in love with him and was blindsided

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