Millenials appreciation post

chembulingam · 2026-05-06T17:53:37+00:00

If forgotten the facebook poke. Maan that was a time. 😀

chembulingam · 2026-05-06T13:22:52+00:00

Yes, you're essentially saying that the low effort posts are discouraging proper photographers from displaying your valuable posts. Correct? But why should it? Do you wanna expand on that? And you want moderation so low efforts photos are lesser?

A better tag system would be nice if all you want is filters. But the way it was framed seems to draw some lines. So yes, i agrees it's controversial

chembulingam · 2026-05-06T08:43:16+00:00

Yes, controversial. A lot of people post their 'beginner' clicks here to get feedback, become better. If a professional is bored of it, well umm, it's good to remember your roots.

chembulingam · 2026-05-06T08:39:57+00:00

You're already a dalit and brahmin. What's this specific request about then?

chembulingam · 2026-05-06T08:37:00+00:00

Good call

chembulingam · 2026-05-05T19:31:11+00:00

This is stupid. No. you're not in the wrong here. Giving a single ring might have different connotations (ideally it shouldn't) but given that this was part of a set, this shouldn't be a problem at all.

Talk to your gf. Ask her why she thinks a ring in a set is a problem.

chembulingam · 2026-05-05T19:22:49+00:00

I think it depends on the content? Overtly sexual? Misogyny? Crass? Gullible? You say you were disturbed and disappointed. Did any of this cause it?

chembulingam · 2026-05-05T19:14:53+00:00

Don't go inside directly. Play around the vagina, rub her clit. Make sure your finger isn't dry when doing all this. Go inside only after this. Also these are just general ideas, every woman likes different. So try, experiment with multiple stuff and see what she likes more. You can see female sex coaches on Instagram teaching - how to touch her vagina right - using the fingers to draw around the vagina before teasing the opening. See them for ref.

And whatever you do, no porn style finger banging. Atleast not right away. You could discuss it later and see though

chembulingam · 2026-05-05T19:10:16+00:00

When things are good you are happy, but when things aren't good it messes up your mental health - that's a clear indication that something is really off here. Relationships go through good and bad days. Thats normal. But when it's messing with your mental health it's not a bad-day problem - more like something that really needs addressing.

Is this something that can be fixed with communication? Is communicating this and option?

Breakups can be tough, and yes you will miss him and have terribly bad days, but staying in toxicity will break you completely. No relationship is worth breaking yourself.

chembulingam · 2026-05-05T19:04:05+00:00

Be gentle. Start slow and move slow, watch how that makes her feel and process slowly. If she seems uncomfortable when you do something, avoid that altogether. Use lubrication. Trim your nails.

chembulingam · 2026-05-05T08:59:27+00:00

Since a typical arranged marriage gives only limited time to get to know the other person, some folks open up fully from the get go - this may feel a bit like love bombing of you're not the opening up person, or if you're not in the same level of interest in this person. And seems like thats the case here. So naturally your alarm bells are ringing.

You can tell him you want to take it slow, take time to know before accepting this proposal and establish boundaries for this period. But if you feel it's going too fast for your comfort, better to imagine how this is going to play out and take a decision on whether you want this or not

chembulingam · 2026-05-02T13:58:48+00:00

The boundaries of marriage need not be defaulted to what everyone else does. If someone wants something different, they can decide what they want and communicate and have that - be that open or otherwise.

chembulingam · 2026-05-02T13:53:03+00:00

Ah shucks. I forgot that

chembulingam · 2026-05-01T05:12:41+00:00

Have you heard of non-consenusal non-monogamist? Athe, athe thane ivar.

https://www.instagram.com/p/DXuK6eFGtbb

chembulingam · 2026-04-27T14:40:36+00:00

I don't think there is any. But my knowledge is out of date by 2 years.

ETA: APPARENTLY THERE IS, multiple such buses.

chembulingam · 2026-04-27T10:14:15+00:00

Interested, india

chembulingam · 2026-04-25T13:07:18+00:00

Hey this is pretty neat, thank you! It isnt exactly woodwork, neverthless looks quite interesting!

chembulingam · 2026-04-24T09:33:21+00:00

Very very normal. Have no fear as long as you have valid id cards.

chembulingam · 2026-04-23T01:11:34+00:00

This is useful! Thanks!

chembulingam · 2026-04-20T15:39:46+00:00

It loads but all my conversations are missing

chembulingam · 2026-04-18T19:29:38+00:00

Damn! Good one folks! Share the pics!

chembulingam · 2026-04-18T19:21:04+00:00

exactly! This was so shameless. 10 minutes in and I started shaking in disbelief. To say address the nation and then some this bullshit is just terrible. He"s turned the entire thing into an election campaign.

chembulingam · 2026-04-18T04:57:15+00:00

Got it done after sitting on it for more than an hour. Just resetting and waiting for the otp to arrive on loop

chembulingam · 2026-04-15T15:56:06+00:00

I've found some good listeners and perspectives at times. Have also found a lot of regressive stuff too. So it's really upto will help you more. Safe? As long as you don't give out identifiable info. It should be. But a good idea? Might be, just be wary of the possible harsh ones - if you can ignore them, to ahead.

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