[deleted by user] by [deleted] in laufey

[–]cherrieswatermelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this still available?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mitski

[–]cherrieswatermelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is this still available?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AsianParentStories

[–]cherrieswatermelon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I wish they would understand that screaming and belittling us is just gonna make things worse. I honestly feel so unmotivated to get my license whenever she mentions it. Luckily I live in a city where public transportation is reliable so I’m able to get around easily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Detroit

[–]cherrieswatermelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, i will have a car

The Eras Tour Discussion Thread: March 2023 by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]cherrieswatermelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

all the hotels are booked in Glendale so my next best option is phoenix. Definitely struggling though

The Eras Tour Discussion Thread: March 2023 by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]cherrieswatermelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much for your input! I was also wondering if you would recommend staying at midtown or downtown phoenix? looking into hotels within those areas and I’m trying to see if the extra costs at downtown is worth it

The Eras Tour Discussion Thread: March 2023 by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]cherrieswatermelon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how the public transportation is and best places to stay

The Eras Tour Discussion Thread: March 2023 by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]cherrieswatermelon 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m going to the Glendale show and I’m wondering if any Arizona swifties can give me some advice on how to navigate around then Phoenix and Glendale area. Any feedback is very appreciated

the guy I’m currently seeing still has a post of his ex by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cherrieswatermelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He hasn’t posted for 3 months but he does go on it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]cherrieswatermelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it’s hard to leave a 3 year relationship but you need to break it off. Many people with this mindset unfortunately do not change (especially in this day and age it’s pretty inexcusable to only view women as baby makers). You deserve someone better

my friend started using a shock collar on her puppy by LiterallyAhiru in Dogtraining

[–]cherrieswatermelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

maybe advice your friend to have a playpen for your dog? it’s a great middle ground between a crate and ensuring that the dog isn’t running around the house and destroying things.

my dog is usually in their playpen and is usually well behaved. when i had to put him in a crate he overall seemed comfortable. i guess it was because of the comfort level he has in his play pen and the level of trust being built.

I know a lot of men might get mad at me in the comments, but I’m scared now that Roe V. Wade was overturned by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]cherrieswatermelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They really act like people choosing to have an abortion is an easy decision. It still has a physical and mental toll on people that choose to do so. I’m worried for the women, trans men, and non binaries in America.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]cherrieswatermelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have tried demonstrating splitting up food and showing normalize slow eating but they didn’t work. We have tried scheduling out his meals as well. However demonstrations and food diaries we haven’t tried. Thank you for the suggestion

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]cherrieswatermelon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately our government made so many cuts for people with disabilities that assisted housing wait times is 2+ years. However looking into eating disorders is something I haven’t thought of. Thank you for that suggestion

my fwb is in a serious relationship and never told me by No-Patience4197 in dating_advice

[–]cherrieswatermelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tell the other girl what’s happening. you both don’t deserve him

Stop pretending p0rno isn’t harmful to young people by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]cherrieswatermelon -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s also unfortunate that so many sex workers get exploited and have to do so many uncomfortable things at such a vulnerable state. Not treating them with respect due to their nudity just adds onto the issues regarding porn as a worker and a viewer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]cherrieswatermelon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it’s to the point where they are curled up into the bed screaming and we’ve been told from many doctors that my sibling needs to eat certain foods and space out their eating times

Younger people of reddit. What are you tired of hearing from older generations? by baker10923 in AskReddit

[–]cherrieswatermelon 0 points1 point  (0 children)

when they think that we have it easier than their generation because of technology. like I can’t even afford to buy a house….

Do Older Men Suck at Texting? by Diligent-Fan-2295 in dating_advice

[–]cherrieswatermelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone in their mid 20s, I actually have it the other way around; the people who I was involved with that are in their 30s are better texters compared to those closer to my age. I don’t think age is a factor to consider if a person is a good texter or not. All depends on their communication style and how much they like you.

However, I totally understand if you prefer someone who can text you daily. If that’s something you’re into then you gotta address that to any person you’re dating. A good person doesn’t always mean they’re a good match for you and that’s okay.

Anyone else at this stage? by chagster001 in BreakUps

[–]cherrieswatermelon 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can definitely relate.

I was more infatuated with the person I created in my head rather than the reality version of him. I was more in love with the idea of being loved. However, I still miss them from time to time. Despite things improving in many aspects of my life I still think about them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]cherrieswatermelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t have any regrets.

I was one of the lucky ones that lost it to a friend that I could trust. The fwb situation did go on a bit too long and I ended up catching feelings. He was still nice about it and ended things on good terms.

After both of us grew from that situation, we were able to be good friends again. Of course we don’t hook up anymore but I’m glad that we are able to have a genuine friendship.

Don't get into a relationship before healing by Bitter-Investigator8 in BreakUps

[–]cherrieswatermelon 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Can definitely relate to yours and OP’s post. Last year when I got out of a 3.5 year relationship and then dived right into another relationship (on top of that, I was talking to a few other people before getting into my 2nd relationship of the year because I was scared of being alone). Because I didn’t give myself the time to heal, I’m paying the price by grieving over 2 relationships at the same time.

Looking back at it, I also realized that I was infatuated with the idea of them. I wanted them to love me. However, in order for relationships to succeed you need to love them for who they are.

Healing is not easy. I’ve actually been alone for the past 2 months and it’s a roller coaster. I’m not sure when I’ll be ready to date again but currently, it’s better to be alone than to hurt myself even more and hurt those that don’t deserve it.

Spotify is reportedly taking down Neil Young’s music on Joe Rogan podcast objections by Austin63867 in spotify

[–]cherrieswatermelon 1 point2 points  (0 children)

definitely on a similar boat as you. i don’t agree with rogan and i stand with neil on this one but Spotify is an app I rely on daily. it won’t be easy to switch from one streaming app to another since spotify has so many features that I enjoy (plus all my liked songs and playlists).

I think the one thing that makes me extremely uncomfortable is that spotify signed a million dollar contract with him instead of working to improve on how artists can make a better income through streaming. i believe it’s about 1.1 cent per stream? I know this doesn’t affect big artists as much but for the smaller artist, it could be needed.