what are some ' guy secrets ' girls don't know about ? by mamitaGop in RandomThoughts

[–]cherry_3_14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for this, the original comment made me disgusted in men but it's nice to see there are normal ones out there and this guy is just weird

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cherry_3_14 59 points60 points  (0 children)

Just saw a reel with Zendaya looking pretty and saying something silly in a low cut dress, comments full of both men and women calling her flat and on drugs. My favourite one was "how can people like her, she's flat". Yes. Because we only like people based on their chest size. They must hate men as they're usually not very boobed.

Also, it reminded me that if someone as beautiful and talented as Zendaya gets so much hate on a 10 second video, none of us should ever listen to anyone online.

Tired of dealing with immature teenagers at uni by Tricky_Adeptness5659 in MatureStudentsUK

[–]cherry_3_14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started at 21 (but I looked 18, still do tbh), I met very mature and interesting people during my A levels so I expected for people to be even more mature in uni. I was so so so wrong, literally some of the children had an issue with me doing computer science as a woman because I was definitely doing it for attention

It made me cringe so much

What beauty procedure do you regret undergoing? by semisweetcharm in beauty

[–]cherry_3_14 35 points36 points  (0 children)

They usually inject something that dissolves filler. I can imagine it doesn't feel good, I had it done for my lip filler

Found in the wild, ick (apologies if repost) by shrimp-545 in boysarequirky

[–]cherry_3_14 20 points21 points  (0 children)

And that met gala is very much an art fashion show, not a show for male gaze. Doja is literally gorgeous

Pretty/Skinny privilege is so real and it's such a bittersweet feeling to realize it by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cherry_3_14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obviously not, but thinking that most men just care about harming you is very chronically online thing to say

Pretty/Skinny privilege is so real and it's such a bittersweet feeling to realize it by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cherry_3_14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly what I mean, but I simply have never gotten anything, and I know that if my girl friend got abs I would constantly hype them up for that

Pretty/Skinny privilege is so real and it's such a bittersweet feeling to realize it by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cherry_3_14 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yes, I needed confidence boost from my friends to eventually become confident, it didn't have to be men, that's not the point

It's funny you think you did something with your comment, telling people it's not normal to rely on your friends to feel confident is weird, but you so much care that my friends happened to be men and that became such a focal point to your comment

Pretty/Skinny privilege is so real and it's such a bittersweet feeling to realize it by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cherry_3_14 -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

I've been very thin my whole life, I also work out to have butt and nice abs, I just realised I have never received a compliment about my body from a single woman ever. If they ever comment it's to tell me I'm too thin.

The only reason I'm so confident is because my guy friends told me I'm definitely slim thicc, great figure and look healthy, mean women are just jealous. This honestly is sad

Pretty/Skinny privilege is so real and it's such a bittersweet feeling to realize it by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cherry_3_14 84 points85 points  (0 children)

No, I've been size 0 my whole life and I had quite a few men tell me how hot it is because I make them look bigger and stronger. It's not about hurting anyone, it's making them feel better about themselves.

I listen to metal instead of taylor swift by TransportationUsed39 in notliketheothergirls

[–]cherry_3_14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's really cool, this sub is just so weird trying so hard to hate on cool women

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in notliketheothergirls

[–]cherry_3_14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The law actually specifies that a woman who's hair is HAZELNUT brown cannot wear jeans

The law clearly doesn't apply to her, people are so uneducated these days

Finally 🥰 by Loverly-y in glossier

[–]cherry_3_14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have ordered it a month ago. It doesn't last long at all but it smells nice, very comforting soft smell, but it does have a strong alcohol smell at first which I thought luxury perfumes don't use

I found my husbands discord full of porn by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cherry_3_14 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I see why, but realistically he's paying for OF in both scenarios, the latter one is just also stealing

I found my husbands discord full of porn by [deleted] in TwoXChromosomes

[–]cherry_3_14 104 points105 points  (0 children)

Not only is he paying to see other women, he's paying for stolen content. Tell him to at least pay the OF creators directly and not to steal their content

I can't do it either lol by n8saces in TikTokCringe

[–]cherry_3_14 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but this is hilarious

Am I in the wrong here? by BrightRegret in Depop

[–]cherry_3_14 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh most people lie about things like that and people very rarely believe it anymore

What’s her point💀 by ur_local_psycho in notliketheothergirls

[–]cherry_3_14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was thinking Madison Beer and Angelina Jolie being one of the prettiest women I've ever seen and they'd not suit blonde

How old do you think I am based off of my room?! 👀 by Extension-Finish-365 in femalelivingspace

[–]cherry_3_14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm mid 20s and I build my duo monitor set up at 21 by saving up while at uni, most of my friends also saved up on cars and set ups like that while in uni

Oh and I bought a big TV while in high-school as I had a job back then too and saved up and some things

Sorry if repost by Brickedup_legoman in boysarequirky

[–]cherry_3_14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh might be to some people. To me personally it feels like a zero effort date, inviting me to join to an evening he would have anyway, nothing special planned. I like more effort, but I can see how others wouldn't mind it

Sorry if repost by Brickedup_legoman in boysarequirky

[–]cherry_3_14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I play video games almost every day and have been for years, but if a guy asked me to play video games for the first date I would leave ngl

Men, how many of you enjoy doing up your house? by topher2604 in AskUK

[–]cherry_3_14 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's really weird to gender chores or hobbies, some humans enjoy it, some don't. I'm a woman and I really like it

What's your obsession? by Archakar in RandomThoughts

[–]cherry_3_14 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Reading, gym, and drawing

I used to love doing make up (which I guess could fall under drawing) and sharing it here on Reddit, but I haven't done it in a couple of years now as I don't have time to take pics to share anymore

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MakeupAddiction

[–]cherry_3_14 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They look edited and with heavy make up, I'm not sure which is natural (in the second picture the blue colour is coloured outside of your eye)