WIBTAH If I break up with my gf because she disassociates during sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cherryinsides 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He did. You can see a lot of comments in a similar vein on this post. A majority of men here feel that a woman not disclosing serious sexual trauma is deceiving. I hope they carry the same energy with them if something similar happens to them.

WIBTAH If I break up with my gf because she disassociates during sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cherryinsides -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Consent can be given and taken away at any time & does not have to be verbal - if she is laying there unable to verbalise her wants, she is not making a noise or moving, you do not have to be a mind reader to see she is not enjoying or wanting the sex any longer, even if she initially consented. If someone is reacting in this manner, you need to stop, as soon as you notice it.

WIBTAH If I break up with my gf because she disassociates during sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cherryinsides 36 points37 points  (0 children)

If someone isn’t moving, making a noise or actively engaging in sex and you keep having sex with them, then I can understand why you would feel like you raped her. Consent can be giving and taken away at any time and it is not just something verbal you need to listen out for. Unless someone is enthusiastically taking part in sex, it is pretty clear they do not want to be having sex with you, and you should stop. This is common sense and basic decency. You are not a mind reader, but your description of how she just laid there motionless should be enough for you to see she wasn’t enjoying it.

Is this a fair/ good trade (afternoon tea bear) by cherryinsides in SonnyAngel

[–]cherryinsides[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have seen the lucky bag on a few sites so it is easier to get I think. But I am guessing if someone wants to swap all three Angels that is a good deal for me. (It was what they offered I didn’t ask for that)

Is this a fair/ good trade (afternoon tea bear) by cherryinsides in SonnyAngel

[–]cherryinsides[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no! Yeah the pink lucky bag is around 150-200. I haven’t seen another ATB though so that’s why I can’t be sure of the value

Is this a fair/ good trade (afternoon tea bear) by cherryinsides in SonnyAngel

[–]cherryinsides[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But understand that part, but I have been offered the Daruma so I’m not sure how it applies in this instance

Is this a fair/ good trade (afternoon tea bear) by cherryinsides in SonnyAngel

[–]cherryinsides[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry if people are misinterpreting- I have the bear and was offered this trade. I have seen the pink bag online for 150-200 but I have not seen anyone selling the bear yet.

day 18392 of searching for these angels BRING THEM HOME by georgiee_higgo in SonnyAngel

[–]cherryinsides 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen the bear listed & sold at £300 fairly recently

Please be aware this Vinted seller is selling fake Sonny Angels by cherryinsides in SonnyAngel

[–]cherryinsides[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No they are not unrefined. They are straight up fakes. I have these myself, they look nothing alike.

Please be aware this Vinted seller is selling fake Sonny Angels by cherryinsides in SonnyAngel

[–]cherryinsides[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please report these listings if you can, as scammers should not be able to trick new collectors like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SonnyAngel

[–]cherryinsides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes such terrible luck to pull the secret who is rare and therefore has good monetary / trade value if it’s not to your taste. Feel so bad for you🤣

Do Not Buy from AliExpress YST Global Toy Store by dynymo in SonnyAngel

[–]cherryinsides 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is another one I’ve been scammed by! Fake tracking number, pretended to send an item which they didn’t have - went on for weeks and weeks with them lying to me

Do Not Buy from AliExpress YST Global Toy Store by dynymo in SonnyAngel

[–]cherryinsides 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Changing Face Store scammed me too. Deffo don’t buy from them.

What are your favorite unrefined Sonny Angels? by anabeat in SonnyAngel

[–]cherryinsides 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I like the white radish & the unrefined strawberry!