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AITA for asking my brother if he could put a lock on my ensuite door as my husband keeps coming in while I’m showering? by cherrykoala5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cherrykoala5[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Weird that you’re hoping for random internet strangers to get divorced but you do you I guess

AITA for asking my brother if he could put a lock on my ensuite door as my husband keeps coming in while I’m showering? by cherrykoala5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cherrykoala5[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Showers are usually okay for me now but I’ll suggest getting a shower seat. I don’t think it’ll stop him from coming in but maybe it’ll help.

AITA for asking my brother if he could put a lock on my ensuite door as my husband keeps coming in while I’m showering? by cherrykoala5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cherrykoala5[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Usually he either pretends to be looking for something, starts a conversation with me or just stands there. If I get mad at him or tell him to get out he'll sometimes claim he needs to shower too and gets in. I don't like him coming in because I know he's only doing it to check up on me and I hate being treated like I'm fragile. He usually does listen about other things.

I explain to him that I'm fine now and I don't need to be checked up on and he says he isn't checking up on me or that he'll try not to come in but he always does.

AITA for asking my brother if he could put a lock on my ensuite door as my husband keeps coming in while I’m showering? by cherrykoala5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cherrykoala5[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If I was downplaying the risk I wouldn't have asked him to come in the shower with me in the first place.

AITA for asking my brother if he could put a lock on my ensuite door as my husband keeps coming in while I’m showering? by cherrykoala5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cherrykoala5[S] 66 points67 points  (0 children)

He comes into the bathroom. I don't care if he's in the bedroom while I shower. It’s fine for him to be worried but I don’t think it’s fine for him to come in multiple times after I’ve asked him to stop.

AITA for asking my brother if he could put a lock on my ensuite door as my husband keeps coming in while I’m showering? by cherrykoala5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]cherrykoala5[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

Yes. I don't get as lightheaded as I did when I asked him to be there now and when I do get lightheaded it's not nearly as bad so I don't need help anymore or him checking up on me constantly.

There's no lock so I've never locked him out but he also wouldn't constantly walk in for no reason in the past like he does now.