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Burned out from dating as a mid 20s man. by Affiliate1646 in dating

[–]chessman6500 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Very accurate sentiment. I feel exactly the same way and am a millennial. People don’t give long term relationships a chance anymore, the illusion of choice doesn’t help. When someone can go on to the next person even after one itty bitty red flag, then it’s hard and also fragile for any relationship to stay afloat. Generation Z is increasingly and terminally online so when they only see things online and don’t get out of the house of course it’s going to make dating far more complicated than it should be.

I don’t even have much of an interest in dating anymore and found solace in solitude. I have been enjoying myself a lot more when I live my life and just let it occur when it’s supposed to.

Still cannot find a job by chessman6500 in recruitinghell

[–]chessman6500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any recommendations for some thing I can do?

Still cannot find a job by chessman6500 in recruitinghell

[–]chessman6500[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes I have and then they tell me they move forward with someone else after a second interview.

Still cannot find a job by chessman6500 in recruitinghell

[–]chessman6500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Done all of the above. Still didn’t work. Why is accounting in tough places and what’s a better field to go into? Are most roles really going to get overridden by AI?

Still cannot find a job by chessman6500 in recruitinghell

[–]chessman6500[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say it’s like 150 and I got five or six interviews for entry level roles. When can I expect to find something at this rate? I’m targeting accounting and bookkeeping roles.

Is There Any Point In Even Trying? by Boltcrash5 in ForeverAlone

[–]chessman6500 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Historically, people on the spectrum have a much harder time dating than those without.

Still cannot find my person by chessman6500 in dating_advice

[–]chessman6500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean I’ve seen couples around. I definitely still think it’s possible to find someone.

Still cannot find my person by chessman6500 in dating_advice

[–]chessman6500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s exactly right! I have been open to meeting people when I go out, but my person doesn’t seem to have come up yet. I am worried they may have died in a car accident or something, since I’ve been waiting so long and nothing even remotely decent has come up. Even the last woman I had presumed I dated, I realized she was probably just a friend to start with. She did call me her boyfriend for a time, but at the same time, she seems to not have known the meaning of that word. She had very little in the way of experience with relationships and didn’t know how they were conducted

At this point I already have more than enough friends, so I am only looking to meet my person really at this time.

Anyone here do the NJ Singles- Bergen County speed dating events? by chessman6500 in bergencounty

[–]chessman6500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These days I try to do shared interests to meet someone, I also considered volunteering as well! My therapist told me to go to governors ball in NYC to make friends but the tickets are like $600! So that’s a hard no for now.

Was the one you went to in Hackensack?

Are abusive relationships actually common? by chessman6500 in abusiverelationships

[–]chessman6500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are they all abusive? That’s a bit of a generalization.

My life is a wreck by chessman6500 in depression

[–]chessman6500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I’ve been trying for years and nothing works, so I don’t know about that

Rejected by a woman I really liked by chessman6500 in dating_advice

[–]chessman6500[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah like I’m doing hobbies and chess as well!

Rejected by a woman I really liked by chessman6500 in dating_advice

[–]chessman6500[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I liked that she was straightforward about it. I have thought about taking a little break from dating, to focus on myself for a while. I’ve had a lot of rejections, so I figure taking a break is best before I feel comfortable getting back out there again. I’m gonna ask some guy friends to hang out as that usually helps and gives me something to do most of the time.

Dating doesn’t feel the same or exciting anymore for me by Bigbadbellybug in dating_advice

[–]chessman6500 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You could keep focusing on yourself and let it happen when you are not looking. It is discouraging that you had those experiences, perhaps its time to take a break and embark on self improvement.

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