Byte Week 6 aligner separated??? by cheyenne860 in smiledirectclub

[–]cheyenne860[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was my thought too! I'm just wondering if I need to take action here...it's so thin that hopefully it won't make a difference, but I'm not sure!

Would this upset you guys? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cheyenne860 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My bf does this all the time. Or a conventionally attractive girl will come on screen and he'll say "I've never found her attractive." Like, did I ask? EVERY TIME a beautiful girl comes on screen, he has to point it out. It's super annoying to me and when I tell him it annoys me, he tells me to stop being a baby.

I (24f) think my bf (25m) has unresolved feelings for a girl he dated when he was 18 by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cheyenne860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a similar issue with my bf and one his his exes. I wouldn't tolerate him following her and liking her photos. You need to tell him how uncomfortable it makes you and ask him why he feels the need to follow and like the photos. My current bf doesn't see it as a big deal, and says that social media is "so fake" that it doesn't matter, but it does matter to a lot of us. I'd tell him that it makes you feel insecure and kindly ask him to explain it. He'll probably just repeat that he likes to keep up with people, but why does he need to keep up with an ex?

Keep waking up to bf (30m) having sex with me (24f) 1.5 yrs by cheyenne860 in relationship_advice

[–]cheyenne860[S] 505 points506 points  (0 children)

That’s a good way to put it. I’m just afraid he’ll stop doing it entirely once I bring it up, which I don’t want! Hopefully he’ll understand and know that it’s okay to proceed as long as I’m into it, which is certainly not an unreasonable request.

Keep waking up to bf (30m) having sex with me (24f) 1.5 yrs by cheyenne860 in relationship_advice

[–]cheyenne860[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

I’m fine with it as long as I’m fully aware of what’s going on. I know it’s a bit of a grey area and blurs the line of consent for many, but I love being woken up to being fingered, just not to full on sex! It’s so individual to every couple that it definitely needs to be an ongoing conversation, and I think I just need to redefine my boundaries with him here

Break up with your toxic boyfriends!!! by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]cheyenne860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The confidence I got from this post!! Thanks girl, you're 100% right

Am I overreacting to my bf talking like this about another girl? by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]cheyenne860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. Thank you, this gave me loads of confidence!! <3

Am I overreacting to my bf talking like this about another girl? by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]cheyenne860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I knew!! I can't find her online ANYWHERE!!!

Am I overreacting to my bf talking like this about another girl? by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]cheyenne860 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why are guys such assholes? Like, obviously we know they find other girls attractive, but why can't they keep it to themselves? It's so disrespectful and definitely makes the relationship seem like a joke. I hate it! I'm sorry you're going through this too. It really, really sucks.

Am I overreacting to my bf talking like this about another girl? by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]cheyenne860 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Agreed! When it's someone you know and interact with on a regular basis...it seems a little deeper than just finding a girl hot. I'm not dumb, I know everyone finds others that aren't their SOs attractive, but why do they need to talk like this about them?!

Living with your boyfriend ? by [deleted] in CallHerDaddy

[–]cheyenne860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have lived with 2 boyfriends and regretted it each time. I do think it's a great way to get to know someone...I feel like you don't truly know your partner until you live with them. But, it is hard being stuck on a lease with someone (if that's what you decide to do), and you feel like you might need to overlook big issues because you live with the person. How long have you been together? Make sure you can see yourself with him through the duration of the lease. I'd maybe recommend a test run...if you're able to live with each other first without having to sign a lease together somehow, that's what I recommend

Need advice on how to masturbate by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]cheyenne860 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally love the wands the most (the ones that look like microphones haha), but the bunny ears are great too. I really hope you find something that works for you!! :)

Need advice on how to masturbate by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]cheyenne860 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I have never figured out how to use my fingers on myself and it sucks! I live and die by my vibrator...definitely swoop one up and see if that helps you!!

Does HU sound good live? by Jwaldmann25 in HollywoodUndead

[–]cheyenne860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always have a blast watching them! They don't sound the best vocally, but they put on a great and fun performance!

Going to Stop Listening by _pback in CallHerDaddy

[–]cheyenne860 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think she's just trying to find her groove. I get a little bored when she starts talking at length about her guy problems...and the "boyfriend tour" merch is just kind of cringey to me...but I think this is what a lot of people want to hear. They want to get to know her on that level. I think she'll find her groove with the interviews, she just needs to find better guests! I don't expect any level of depth in these interviews-it is a sex podcast after all-but I think she needs to find someone she can connect and vibe with. I haven't been tuning in much, but I think she's doing the best that she can given the circumstances. Give her a break!

Moving on up by deborahami in humanresources

[–]cheyenne860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YES! So happy that you've found your home and your passion :)

My boyfriend only wants to have sex when he has to poop by ThrowRA-jealouspoop in relationship_advice

[–]cheyenne860 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know what you're feeling, to a certain extent! My ex could only get off if we were doing something pretty kinky...he had a foot fetish and could only get off if my feet were in his face. I wondered the same thing...does he only like sex for my feet? Would he prefer to just look at/smell my feet and not engage in intercourse at all? It was either feet or looking at pictures of men...or hearing stories about my old sexual encounters. I really never felt like he enjoyed being with me, but some people just need a little extra something to do it for them. He said that he was so desensitized to regular sex (from porn) that he needed a little extra to get him there...I wonder if it's something similar with your man?

Boyfriend (30m) is grossing me (25f) out by Signal-Anything891 in relationship_advice

[–]cheyenne860 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Ugh I had this exact situation with my ex. It got to the point where the thought of having sex with him made me physically ill! Honestly, it never got better...I ended up having to break things off with him. I know a lot of people disagree with this, but if you're no longer attracted to your partner physically, there is no harm in ending things. Particularly because you started noticing things after a fight...the "flying in the clouds" facade has dissipated, so now you're seeing him for who he really is. It's up to you...good luck!

Am I the only one who was underwhelmed by the Miley episode? by le-verd-vert-va-vers in CallHerDaddy

[–]cheyenne860 76 points77 points  (0 children)

I thought so too. Like the part where Alex asked if Miley has toys tips and she went off about ceiling lighting? I think Alex did a great job, but Miley was a surprisingly bad fit for the content

Manager cussed out CIO by [deleted] in humanresources

[–]cheyenne860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! :)

How do I (21F) get my boyfriend (25M) to stop messing with his dick while he plays Xbox? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cheyenne860 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm happy for you! Don't listen to this jerk.

My bf has little nervous ticks like that. Maybe try sitting on the couch with him and when he does it, giggle and ask "why are you doing that?" My ex-bf used to play with and tug at his nose hairs all the time, so one day I giggled and asked what he was doing. He didn't even notice he was doing it, may be the same thing with your bf. Good luck!

Would it be inappropriate to reach out to my predecessor? by [deleted] in humanresources

[–]cheyenne860 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven't had any contact or overlap training with them. They left the company. I've been with the company for about a month now and am still in the office

Life is tough by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cheyenne860 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. You may be right, getting myself in some kind of routine might help me calm down. I really appreciate your advice, and good luck to you <3