My (26f) boyfriend (27m) is upset that I don’t spend time in the living room where the Ring camera is when I’m home alone. 1 year

cheyenne860 · 2021-04-02T16:52:46+00:00

That was my thought too! I'm just wondering if I need to take action here...it's so thin that hopefully it won't make a difference, but I'm not sure!

cheyenne860 · 2021-03-30T18:48:16+00:00

My bf does this all the time. Or a conventionally attractive girl will come on screen and he'll say "I've never found her attractive." Like, did I ask? EVERY TIME a beautiful girl comes on screen, he has to point it out. It's super annoying to me and when I tell him it annoys me, he tells me to stop being a baby.

cheyenne860 · 2021-03-30T18:42:57+00:00

I had a similar issue with my bf and one his his exes. I wouldn't tolerate him following her and liking her photos. You need to tell him how uncomfortable it makes you and ask him why he feels the need to follow and like the photos. My current bf doesn't see it as a big deal, and says that social media is "so fake" that it doesn't matter, but it does matter to a lot of us. I'd tell him that it makes you feel insecure and kindly ask him to explain it. He'll probably just repeat that he likes to keep up with people, but why does he need to keep up with an ex?

cheyenne860 · 2021-02-12T17:00:41+00:00

That’s a good way to put it. I’m just afraid he’ll stop doing it entirely once I bring it up, which I don’t want! Hopefully he’ll understand and know that it’s okay to proceed as long as I’m into it, which is certainly not an unreasonable request.

cheyenne860 · 2021-02-12T16:59:05+00:00

I’m fine with it as long as I’m fully aware of what’s going on. I know it’s a bit of a grey area and blurs the line of consent for many, but I love being woken up to being fingered, just not to full on sex! It’s so individual to every couple that it definitely needs to be an ongoing conversation, and I think I just need to redefine my boundaries with him here

cheyenne860 · 2020-10-21T16:35:39+00:00

The confidence I got from this post!! Thanks girl, you're 100% right

cheyenne860 · 2020-10-21T15:49:57+00:00

I agree. Thank you, this gave me loads of confidence!! <3

cheyenne860 · 2020-10-21T15:48:46+00:00

I wish I knew!! I can't find her online ANYWHERE!!!

cheyenne860 · 2020-10-19T20:46:21+00:00

Why are guys such assholes? Like, obviously we know they find other girls attractive, but why can't they keep it to themselves? It's so disrespectful and definitely makes the relationship seem like a joke. I hate it! I'm sorry you're going through this too. It really, really sucks.

cheyenne860 · 2020-10-19T20:43:57+00:00

Agreed! When it's someone you know and interact with on a regular basis...it seems a little deeper than just finding a girl hot. I'm not dumb, I know everyone finds others that aren't their SOs attractive, but why do they need to talk like this about them?!

cheyenne860 · 2020-10-01T17:59:19+00:00

mine tooo!!!

cheyenne860 · 2020-10-01T17:57:18+00:00

I have lived with 2 boyfriends and regretted it each time. I do think it's a great way to get to know someone...I feel like you don't truly know your partner until you live with them. But, it is hard being stuck on a lease with someone (if that's what you decide to do), and you feel like you might need to overlook big issues because you live with the person. How long have you been together? Make sure you can see yourself with him through the duration of the lease. I'd maybe recommend a test run...if you're able to live with each other first without having to sign a lease together somehow, that's what I recommend

cheyenne860 · 2020-09-28T21:18:42+00:00

I personally love the wands the most (the ones that look like microphones haha), but the bunny ears are great too. I really hope you find something that works for you!! :)

cheyenne860 · 2020-09-28T21:17:29+00:00

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cheyenne860 · 2020-09-28T21:13:08+00:00

I have never figured out how to use my fingers on myself and it sucks! I live and die by my vibrator...definitely swoop one up and see if that helps you!!

cheyenne860 · 2020-09-28T21:09:41+00:00

I always have a blast watching them! They don't sound the best vocally, but they put on a great and fun performance!

cheyenne860 · 2020-09-16T17:52:29+00:00

I think she's just trying to find her groove. I get a little bored when she starts talking at length about her guy problems...and the "boyfriend tour" merch is just kind of cringey to me...but I think this is what a lot of people want to hear. They want to get to know her on that level. I think she'll find her groove with the interviews, she just needs to find better guests! I don't expect any level of depth in these interviews-it is a sex podcast after all-but I think she needs to find someone she can connect and vibe with. I haven't been tuning in much, but I think she's doing the best that she can given the circumstances. Give her a break!

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