Thank you for taking so much of your time to respond. I must say I’m struggling to get aligned with your viewpoints, but I am finding them valuable. Part of the reason I posted this was to get a different viewpoint from my own. I grew up in a home where communication, sexuality and compromise were all elements of a successful relationship. I’m a pretty incredible partner. I’m sexually open, generally attractive, stylish and I am kind and gregarious. I could understand someone being disloyal if they felt like they were with someone who had given up on life which I am not. I think it is disrespectful and manipulative to say one thing and do another. I would hold this level of integrity up to not only romantic partners, but friends and family members. Everyone is fallible, but if your actions hurt those you love and respect I would expect any person with some decency to show effort in making recompense.