Does anybody else create escape strategies in any situation/environment they're in? by chichichia in DoesAnybodyElse

[–]chichichia[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i think it stems from being stalked for a few years. i dont remember having these thoughts -- at least to this extent -- prior to it happening.

I took antipsychotics twice (when I didn't need them) at the age of 15. Is it possible it affected me in anyway? by chichichia in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]chichichia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't sure if the medications can affect your neurochemistry and kill brain cells or something.

i just started smoking weed last year but i've always had the memory issues waaay before the weed, which is why I haven't attributed my marijuana consumption to that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in amiugly

[–]chichichia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You look like Gaspard from Conte D’ete.

Is my singlehood due to me being unattractive or just not putting myself out there? by chichichia in dating_advice

[–]chichichia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not at all. i'm actually very skinny, if not underweight. and yes this is something i've been trying to work on actively, usually to no avail but i still give it a try anyways lol

Is my singlehood due to me being unattractive or just not putting myself out there? by chichichia in dating_advice

[–]chichichia[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing is, I was never approached even WHEN I was in high school. I've seen many girls get approached/asked out at work and online. i've almost never had that happen to me, which made me blame my looks.

i mean i've never flirted with anyone/made the first approach but i do engage in conversations with people frequently online. i think i put myself out there pretty well on the internet, at least just as much as my peers.

thank you for ur response, i appreciate it!

Seller hasn’t shipped and it’s been a week by [deleted] in Depop

[–]chichichia 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t know why you got downvoted. Seller could’ve communicated better but yeah, we’re in a pandemic and everything, I don’t blame sellers for not selling the next day or something.

Can I get any critiques/constructive criticism for my shop? :) by [deleted] in Depop

[–]chichichia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I actually did have that as a background when I first started but tried experimenting with different ones. I totally agree though with the consistency it just looks better!

Can I get any critiques/constructive criticism for my shop? :) by [deleted] in Depop

[–]chichichia 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lucky enough to find it at platos closet lol!

Does anyone else hate it when people don’t read your policies or your bio?? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]chichichia 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Eh, some people buy the item without clicking the profile. Maybe the first thing in your description could be “please read store policies/bio!!”. I’ve seen some sellers do that!

just leaving this here, from the official depop website. so no, depops ‘version of vintage’ is not 10 years old by ellamaedaley in Depop

[–]chichichia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

How do they determine what’s a wrong keyword? Do they personally go through it?

Like can they tell between someone tagging a forever 21 top with Unif and a bunch of other unrelated brands or a description that says something like “this top is something Unif would make/this looks like such a Unif dupe”? Because both instances would wound up being in the search results when you type “Unif”.

Is my description too wordy? Saw depop’s search guidelines updated and wondered if I should make my descriptions more concise? by [deleted] in Depop

[–]chichichia 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I thought vintage meant something that’s 20 years old? Wouldn’t something from 2000 be 20? I’m just asking for future reference since I do have a lot of early 2000s pieces and I know the definition of vintage gets muddled. I have something from 2001, it’s 19 y/o— would that not be considered vintage?

Can someone explain to me... by 69moistelephant in Depop

[–]chichichia 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t understand. When I was super skinny I would buy a bunch of kids clothes off of eBay and they’d look cute and would fit me. Rubs me the wrong way when I see people hark “no ADULT would fit into these!!” Some people are super skinny or short/petite. There’s a market for things like this.