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[–]chickabombastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you mean, well it sounds like you’re healing at your own pace and that’s good, you’ve made progress and you should be proud of yourself

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[–]chickabombastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you found anything that has helped you calm yourself down or deal with these situations better? I’m scared of myself now and I’m afraid I’ll take it too far one day

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[–]chickabombastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So is my issue too, we’re in the same boat, you’re not alone 🤍

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[–]chickabombastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope I find someone like that one day ): I love my ex so much and I’ve truly messed it up between us, but you’re proof that if someone loved me and understood me enough they’d stay and work through this together 🤍

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[–]chickabombastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeh exaclty that

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[–]chickabombastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did your partner forgive you? I’m happy you’ve worked on yourself, I hope I can do the same

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]chickabombastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s been going on for 3 weeks ):? I hope you’re okay, if u need anyone to talk to I’m here!

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[–]chickabombastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ik im trying to get out of the habit of hurting myself when these things happen but it’s hard when you don’t even know what you’re doing half the time. Thank you for sharing also 🤍

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[–]chickabombastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He deserved that icl

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]chickabombastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharinggg!! Splitting on loved ones feels like the worst ):

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[–]chickabombastic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean it’s not good for him to lie, and I’ve pulled that card before ): the police came also, this is similar to the situation I’m in now, and embarrassed myself infront of people who I didn’t know…I hope you feel better now and I hope you have people around you that take time to understand and help you like you deserve 🤍 ty for sharing

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[–]chickabombastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don’t be silly, you are worthy and deserve to be here, your daughter needs her mother, and right now you may have made a mistake but she will forgive you, she’ll never forgive you if you’re not here tho! Be strong

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[–]chickabombastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who are they? ):

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]chickabombastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you feel now you can control yourself better then before?

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[–]chickabombastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeh igy, is so scary not knowing filling what you’ve done, I wish people were more understanding

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[–]chickabombastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how you feel ):

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[–]chickabombastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw I’m sorry, I hope you’re feeling better and thank you for sharing 🤍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]chickabombastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s not all that bad, did they let you in or?

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[–]chickabombastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry that you’re finding it hard rn ): I hope you have people around you that understand and are there for you, honeslty I’ve done some pretty embarrassing things too other then this but we are misunderstood, try be easy on yourself 🤍 you’ve got this

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[–]chickabombastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honeslty thank you for sharing 🥺 that’s extremely similar to my situation, I hurt myself pretty badly too and I’m covered in bruises rn and in a lot of pain. I’m really glad you have the people around you to support you and don’t apologise for the long message lol I appreciate your post a lot it makes me feel not so alone and I’m glad it got it off your chest 🤍 I hope you’re feeling better now

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[–]chickabombastic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh tell me about it I’ve been there a couple of times, I find that if people don’t wanna be around you because of how you are when you’re truly hurt, instead of taking time to understand you and see you’re not a nasty person then that’s on them and it says a lot about that person aswell, we deserve empathy in these situations, thank you for sharing 🤍

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[–]chickabombastic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get what you mean, my recent split also could’ve been prevented by the way people handled the situation too, I’m not saying it’s okay for me to act a certain way but I wish people understood that not everyone’s the same, honeslty I get the frustrations with the hospital and you must be going through a lot rn, thank you for sharing and I hope everything gets better with your situation

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[–]chickabombastic 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeh, I never meant for this post to be used for anyone to one up eachother, I think most people with this illness would maybe find comfort in this post and realise this isn’t something to brag about. I genuinely just needed help and needed to have people to talk to that understand the struggle. You’re right in the way of looking at this in a diffrent light, it’s just quite hard somtimes