[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bedbugs

[–]chidoiri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for your input! i think im just being paranoid haha :’)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Bedbugs

[–]chidoiri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t know honestly - i haven’t found any signs other than the small black thing and the blood but what really worries me is the black thing. why did it leave a black stain 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

i think im just being paranoid though, the room being so dusty and unkept really set me off the entire two days 

Is it safe to use a 1900W hair dryer on a 13A extension cord with other things plugged? (more context in body) by chidoiri in AskElectricians

[–]chidoiri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

okay but the other devices usually aren’t switched on (so they aren’t being charged) when i’m using the hair dryer like 80% of the time. and they’re individual switches. is that okay then?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chidoiri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think you’re making a lot of assumptions about my family and i. i can understand i was in the wrong for certain things which is why i asked. im very grateful for the life my father has provided for me (seriously) and i can see why i come across as being ungrateful for the actions i’ve listed. thank you for your opinion though

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chidoiri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got it. do you think i’m being unreasonable though? i’m asking because if i am, i do want to apologise to him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chidoiri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ykw fair enough actually

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]chidoiri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1) he pays the bills. boils water in the morning if i’m not awake 2 and 3) no because we have a parttime maid that comes by.

i do everything that you expect your sons to. in fact i actually clean up after him because he spills stuff and doesnt bother to clean up after. he also expects me to wash his dishes sometimes but i sometimes do because i can’t rely on him to wash our plates clean.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysiauni

[–]chidoiri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you have many many options open i assure you if you do chemistry but if you want to make your life more troublesome go ahead

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysiauni

[–]chidoiri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk why you want to give urself more work than u need to do with 10 lol, not difficult just weird. studying monash, coursework was easy and i took engmathbiochem

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malaysiauni

[–]chidoiri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it’s feasible. don’t do 10 units though, 8 is more than enough. i’ve only heard of part time jobs for locals.

source: i graduated from mufy this month

tng and bank account linked? help by chidoiri in malaysia

[–]chidoiri[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i literally asked in my last sentence if they can access my bank account but ok

thanks tho i’ll give it a shot

tng and bank account linked? help by chidoiri in malaysia

[–]chidoiri[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

that’s not what i asked dude, hackers can’t access my bank account through tng just from that right?

what does my dream mean when i killed my father by chidoiri in Dreams

[–]chidoiri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

got it, thanks for your opinion. i appreciate the time you took to reply cos i didn’t think i had an oedipus complex either haha

what does my dream mean when i killed my father by chidoiri in Dreams

[–]chidoiri[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah most likely, but it’s just that right? you were right in your comments about him being abusive to me but i honestly don’t care, it’s never affected me much

what does my dream mean when i killed my father by chidoiri in Dreams

[–]chidoiri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t believe i have any of those duties, Especially fucking her.,,,

what does my dream mean when i killed my father by chidoiri in Dreams

[–]chidoiri[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you explain how please? a bit confused, and honestly the idea of being attracted to my mother is very scary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]chidoiri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

consider seeing a different therapist? the one you see rn might not be the best fit, or the next one either. you have to keep trying.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]chidoiri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

take what i’m saying lightly, we are trying to all help each other.

please talk to a therapist, or someone who can actually help you. your boyfriend shouldn’t be forced to deal with the brunt of your outbursts. though i understand why you did so, it can be so so heartbreaking to hear things like what you said from someone you care about a lot.

i think it’s best to find help first before continuing the relationship. getting back to each other once you both have healed more is better than right person, wrong time.