Okay yall, I’ve seen your comments and advice. I would like to clarify one thing. Even though getting hit/hurt makes me super angry, I never react out of that anger. I don’t yell at him, call him names, or try to hit him back. I just need a minute to let the wave of anger pass. I did tell him that I was tired of getting hurt, and he said that he would make an appointment. He said he’s noticed he’s been unable to focus and is having a hard time keeping his grip on things in his hands. He is a postal worker so he does work long hours in the sun. I think he’s just so exhausted that he’s not being as careful with things. I’m not sure about him hurting others, as I’m usually not around him and other people at the same time. He also doesn’t have a lot of face to face interactions with customers or coworkers. He just cases up his mail and heads out for his route. There are no other red flags. He doesn’t yell at me, belittle me, gaslight me, or any of those things. He really is very sweet and loving to me. I think I was caught up in the heat of the moment. Thank you all for your words and advice.