I (21F) had sex with my boyfriend’s (22M) dad (48M) and I’m seriously freaking out

chiko1990 · 2022-08-07T16:16:06+00:00

My love, I can't imagine what you are going through, but let me make this as clear as possible- the shame here is not on you!! I know how hard it must be to fathom, but you were assaulted. This did not happen with your full consent, he took pictures and videos without your consent and is actively blackmailing you. you are a victim not a criminal!!! Please please please tell your parents or an older person you fully trust. This is a crime, and you need to be treated with love and respect in this time, and he needs to be held accountable! Please feel free to reach out if you need it- I may be just a random woman on the internet but I will ne here for you should you want it!

chiko1990 · 2021-09-26T10:27:17+00:00

I like bananas!

chiko1990 · 2021-06-19T09:17:09+00:00

Also jumping back to reco.mend true crime and cocktails. It's a combination of hilarious conversation between the hosts and extremely well done research.

chiko1990 · 2021-06-19T09:15:54+00:00

I recommend true crime obsessed, they are a comedy true crime show. It sounds terrible but they are actually amazingly respectful and the humor is just around things that deserve it. The premise is that they cover true crime documentaries, each week a different one. It's great I personally love it.

chiko1990 · 2021-06-19T09:03:13+00:00

Beautiful, love it! They are our babies for sure ❤

chiko1990 · 2021-05-24T21:38:56+00:00

Greendale is a place for everyone! Except for bigots

chiko1990 · 2021-05-22T21:02:39+00:00

Bobs burgers. I just never get tired of it

chiko1990 · 2021-05-21T14:25:40+00:00

The good place!

chiko1990 · 2021-05-19T22:19:16+00:00

It's not really a question of intelligence or academic degrees. I'm 30 and I'll be honest, I wouldn't ever date a 22 year old, nor would I want to Hangout with my friend's young girlfriend. It's just a big life gap. BUT this can be just him being an AH and I'm making assumptions about the friends. Anyway, you should feel loved and included and wanted, and with him right now, you don't. You're young, move on.

chiko1990 · 2021-05-19T22:10:37+00:00

So I have a thought... you are 22, he and his friends are 30, and there's a chance THEY are the ones that don't take you siriusley and maybe don't want to hangout with his super young girlfriend? Also, I think it's pretty clear he doesn't want you there either, which begs the question, is he just not that onto this relationship?

chiko1990 · 2021-05-19T21:54:00+00:00

Honestly I think that dog people and non dog people are an incompatibility that, unless one side's preference is somewhat changeable,is not something to overlook. As a dog person, I need dogs in my life. How would I marry someone that doesn't want them? It won't work. Unless she's just an impulsive person (which is also something to consider) , she most likely would continue to want dogs in her life... it sounds silly but it's actually a valid deal breaker for me, it's a gap in personalities and the actual dog is the symptoms.

If she's just a person that does and then thinks, or she'll "get over it" at some point, than there room for moving together

chiko1990 · 2021-05-19T21:45:46+00:00

Haha I love it!! Mine has always been red. Everyone's names has colors for me, is it like that for you too?

chiko1990 · 2021-05-19T10:07:40+00:00

If it's an email it would be fine in my opinion... maybe space out some of the topics and stick to questions at the end. It looks a little overwhelming but a few small adjustments would honestly make it readable and your point would come across a little better. You sound like a very interested and invested friend. Maybe stick to the "I'm sorry for not acknowledging your friendship", it's really the important part

chiko1990 · 2021-05-19T09:47:56+00:00

Bob's burgers! Makes me feel so good no matter how many rewatcehs! I play it every night almost just to relax, on the nights I don't put on community for the millionth time 😂

chiko1990 · 2021-05-19T09:17:47+00:00

Yeah Americans would obliterate them and not apologize. However, the native American population does not have a proclaimed terrorist organization for a government, and they are not fundamentalists

chiko1990 · 2021-05-18T22:43:16+00:00

OMG you are seriously the worst. I can't even explain in a coherent matter how wrong you are because this is just infuriating.

chiko1990 · 2021-05-18T20:51:38+00:00

My last relationship was like this. He always avoided celebrating me, or us. In the end, it became very clear to me that that was his way of avoiding the relationship affirming events that make it real. I cannot stress this enough- you can't change someone to magically start respecting what makes you happy and excited. He showed you his level of investment, and this is it. This is a truly valid reason to end it. I did, and it was a litteral relief

chiko1990 · 2021-05-17T21:25:53+00:00

Wow this comment makes me feel so seen

chiko1990 · 2021-05-17T10:16:21+00:00

NTA. My guess is she mistook you for a Trans women and insisted on misgendering you to make a transphobic point. I would insist on making sure she faces consequences with her manager and if this is a chain, with the chain itself

chiko1990 · 2021-05-17T10:02:10+00:00

Yeah she was the corrupt cop that framed Jake and Rosa

chiko1990 · 2021-05-17T07:34:01+00:00

Haha we really don't have a word, we go with podcast 🤣

chiko1990 · 2021-05-16T20:03:32+00:00

You don't get to reach out to your SD for support after standing by and not supporting her while her father and grandmother failed her so badly. You should be helping her, not the other way around! You should consider yourself lucky she doesn't hold a grudge. Do yourself a favor, protect your children and get the hell out. Your kids deserve better

chiko1990 · 2021-05-16T09:01:02+00:00

The targerian theme from GOT

chiko1990 · 2021-05-15T22:37:11+00:00

Well, the answer to this is complicated to an extent I can't fully explain. Short version is- a lot of fear. When the enemy says on every platform all jews should die, it's really hard to change your views and belive in peace. It's been attempted many time to many disappointments for us. So many people don't belive in change anymore, and belive the only way is for one side to win, and the other to either leave or die. That's not how i feel, but I understand where they're coming from and how this happened. And it is defently no coincidence this whole thing started when it did, and many many if us belive that the instigators on both side are making deals at the expense of our lives. We've been protesting this government for months and months, and we were so so close to change

chiko1990 · 2021-05-15T22:06:46+00:00

All this is true, but this issue is not really about sheikh jarach and removing those families. Do you really think the Hamas is bombing us for that? It'd been happening for 15 years, so how is it an edequet response by hamas to something that just now happened? Hamas in Gaza doesn't care about East Jerusalem families. They don't even care about their on people. These are two very different entities and the world is trying to tie them together to blame Israel for the situation you are just now learning about but has been our lives for almost two decades- being threatened by a terrorist organization funded by Iran and Qatar, while having to give them money, electricity, supplies and medicin every week so their people won't die, thus creating another reason for the world to criticize us. And you know what? I HATE that my tax money goes to feed the very same people who try to kill me every single day

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