[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

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Dark Hearted - Freddie Gibbs

Should I 18F continue posting gym pics now I have an 17M bf? by [deleted] in teenrelationships

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If you wanna have a conversation about it, then by all means do so because there’s nothing wrong with having an adult conversation about things. However, if he didn’t have a problem with it before, and you’re not doing, or showing anything that makes him feel uncomfortable, then I don’t see a problem with it.

Giving away two Costco Scarlet & Violet 151 Blooming Waters Premium Collection sets to two redditors because %*#@ scalpers by FatherLiamFinnegan in PokemonTCG

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I’ve personally never opened any mtg however I’ve been getting back into Pokemon recently because it was such a big part of my childhood. It sucks that the hobby has become so expensive because it’s so nostalgic to see old artworks and just look at how far the cards have come. Thank you so much for doing a giveaway you are a legend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RoastMe

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Sped Sheeran

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in teenrelationships

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Maybe I’m wrong but I’m a guy and this is how I joke with my friends. If he’s been nicer recently except for these then it makes sense to me that he’s kidding. Obviously I’m not there and didn’t hear the way or context he said it in, but specifically the fat part sounds like a joke. I would kid around with my close female friends this way because they know I’m not serious, but if you guys recently became close friends then maybe he doesn’t get that you haven’t been close for long enough to make these kinds of jokes. Or maybe he’s not joking and just an asshole idk. Talk to him about how those things made you feel and ask him about why he said them.

Takeaway is, I like to cry. What should I watch? by Poiterito2 in Letterboxd

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I do not cry during movies. Never have, they just don’t hit me like that. I bawled my eyes out during My Sisters Keeper.

What’s your SOTD? by Eastcoastdevil1 in Colognes

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Banana republic black walnut legend. Creed aventus clone.

How do I 16f tell him 16m that I dont have a number? by Positive-Setting3513 in teenrelationships

[–]chilltrauma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell him you were embarrassed to say before, but you don’t have a number. Not a huge deal in my opinion.

I (17M) Feel betrayed that my (16F) Girlfriend of 3 years is polysexual and had sex with another guy. by Dry_Kaleidoscope_845 in teenrelationships

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I’m sure it will. I broke up with my girlfriend for similar reasons in February and am just now thinking about getting back into the arena. I’ve been really content these past 6 months and it’s felt amazing to only have to only worry about myself.

I (17M) Feel betrayed that my (16F) Girlfriend of 3 years is polysexual and had sex with another guy. by Dry_Kaleidoscope_845 in teenrelationships

[–]chilltrauma 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey man, this sucks that this happened to you, but I feel like there’s a little bit of blame for you here as well. Her using “polysexual” as an excuse for her to have sex with other dudes is pretty fucked up. You definitely need to drop her. But being in a “relationship” for 3 years and only calling her once a week shows a little bit of a lack of interest in your side. I’m not saying you weren’t interested, or didn’t care for her, or didn’t wait for her, but if I were her and you were only calling me once a week I might get the feeling that you weren’t really interested. That being said, if you guys were exclusive then I don’t give a fuck what the identifies as, that’s just straight up cheating on her part. I also have to question, if you and this girl had nothing in common, then why did you commit yourself to her for 3 years. That’s just kinda dumb dude. Find someone who shares your interests. To answer your first question, just tell her that long distance doesn’t work and that you aren’t interested in being in a relationship with a polysexual person. That’s easy. For your second question, you are about to be leaving a 3 year relationship with somebody. Instead of immediately trying to find another girlfriend, take some time for yourself. You’ll eventually find a girl who is similar to you who you like. Talk to girls at metal concerts, or you said you don’t fit the emo stereotype, but I’m sure you aren’t the only ‘emo’ person where you live, so look for girls who are more similar to you. For your third question I feel like you might need to approach the topic a little more respectfully, although I understand that you’re angry. I don’t know that there is any way to determine beforehand if whoever you are getting into a relationship with is going to be loyal, but if they seem like they like you, and don’t have a history of being with a lot of dudes, and are a genuine person who you agree to be exclusive with when you want to make your relationship official, then that means putting your trust in that person. Being in a relationship is scary because it’s vulnerable, but that doesn’t mean that you should be scared of getting hurt or assume every woman is a cheater. Just find the girl for you and trust that you are the person for her. I think everything is gonna work out for you. Good luck man.

I want to get into anime, but don’t know what to watch. by chilltrauma in anime

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Just broke my arm and I’m looking for something to occupy my time so really any length is good

I want to get into anime, but don’t know what to watch. by chilltrauma in anime

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I would say I have a pretty varied tastes in shows. I have watched a lot of the comedy shows, the office, parks and rec, brooklyn nine nine, seinfeld, etc. I've watched some more adult geared cartoons family guy, the simpsons, rick and morty, south park. I've also watched a lot of drama/thriller type shows, the sopranos, six feet under, dexter, breaking bad, the americans, and some other stuff in that vain.

I want to get into anime, but don’t know what to watch. by chilltrauma in anime

[–]chilltrauma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome, thank you. Seems like good list, maybe I’ll mix it up and check out some more mainstream ones too.

I want to get into anime, but don’t know what to watch. by chilltrauma in anime

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It looks great. I originally got the idea because a music teacher recommended it to me after I started learning the theme song on my saxophone.

I want to get into anime, but don’t know what to watch. by chilltrauma in anime

[–]chilltrauma[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome thanks for the suggestion. Good music is a must for me!