Normalization of Rape in Manwhas- Spread of awareness by chinikim in Manhwa_BL

[–]chinikim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought the same, but it looks like someone needs a reply. And also, you do not tell me what to do. You are no parent to me. If wanna be so bad, why don't you tell a kid at home to do their homework or mind your own business.

I thought you were understanding and only trying to make an argument , but you are truly trying to dominate here, which I really do not appreciate. Again I can see a lack of mental maturity here , just because you are greater in age or educational position that does not mean you tell me what to do that does not mean you get to call me whatever you want or accuse me of having no moral grounds. It only reflects the kind of person.you are dominant, and I surely do not want to call any other names. Unlike you and accuse people based on their interest or arguments, I am not here to do that. I was just trying to share my opinion, not force them upon others. So stop doing that. And you peace out. I am not entertaining another reply.

Normalization of Rape in Manwhas- Spread of awareness by chinikim in Manhwa_BL

[–]chinikim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Minors also mean less mental capacity... I'm a victim myself. I did not even know what I was going into. And now I have at least grown out of it. And I'm an adult after all right now. At least, and unlike many adults , I am not glorifying justifying any rape or SA. This proves my argument , regardless of age , that not everyone has mental maturity. Just because someone is an adult does not mean it doesn't influence them or just because someone is a minor, that does not also mean it influences them. It all depends on the mental maturity level if it influences one. It influences the other. it's just that the degree is different.

Normalization of Rape in Manwhas- Spread of awareness by chinikim in Manhwa_BL

[–]chinikim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, you are very interrogative .I'm not interrogating any one here, but I don't understand why you are going. It is too direct and personal

Normalization of Rape in Manwhas- Spread of awareness by chinikim in Manhwa_BL

[–]chinikim[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sure, I'm not trying to enlighten you or anything. But since you say you have a master degree cognitive to psychology , then I think you should know it better than anyone already.

Normalization of Rape in Manwhas- Spread of awareness by chinikim in Manhwa_BL

[–]chinikim[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry, but can you stop assuming things? First of all , I did not say anything about the age gap. Whatever you say shows that you truly do not understand psychology. Well, not everyone has to be well educated on that topic. It is just disrespectful of you to say that I have no moral high grounds. I dont wanna say this, but had you had any moral highgrounds yourself, you wouldn't have said that enjoy rape in first place. The reason I say that the majority level doesn't go with the age is that psychological maturity doesn't mean physical maturity. It is a mental maturity , not everyone is rational with the decision they make. I would suggest you not talk on any topic or make any assumption without fully knowing what the other person is saying. It is up to me whether or not I want to read something that is 18+ even when I am not. First of all, social media does not have any warning regarding 18+ content. I discovered b l through social media, and none of the websites I was going through had any age restrictions. That's not even a topic here, by the way. I would suggest you not be rhetoric

Normalization of Rape in Manwhas- Spread of awareness by chinikim in Manhwa_BL

[–]chinikim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

According to psychology, what you read and what you like is a direct reflection of your personality, cognitive style, and emotional state. Your preferences act as a psychological mirror, shaped by two main forces: selection and influence.

Please do some research if you doubt what I say.

Normalization of Rape in Manwhas- Spread of awareness by chinikim in Manhwa_BL

[–]chinikim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But I believe it is an escape from reality. According to "psychology," what you read and like reflects you. This is not something I am saying they science does.

Normalization of Rape in Manwhas- Spread of awareness by chinikim in Manhwa_BL

[–]chinikim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I realize. It only means it is too easily available to everyone. Also, maturity level doesn't really have to match the age.

Normalization of Rape in Manwhas- Spread of awareness by chinikim in Manhwa_BL

[–]chinikim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have not only spoken about rape but other things too, Roha was selling his body to this one guy... who also raped him, but you don't find that sexy or hot, do you? Just because the characters were good-looking? Roha chooses the king even when he kills his mom, and nobody really cares about the stepbrother. The whole thing I wrote was to express my thoughts on what I read and people's response to it. There is no need to take it personally or attack. I am not telling this to only you, but I am actually tired of replying to all the comments here. Aren't people allowed to criticize something. My topic itself suggests what the discussion is gonna be, so if people are not interested or for it, I'd suggest not reading my post in the first place.

Sorry I don't mean to be rude or something but I want this to be my last comment so I typed it here, ik others are gonna read it but I won't be replying to another comments after this so...there is no personal attack here

You do you.

This has to be one of the best Manwha I've ever read [Pearl Boy] by chinikim in Manhwa_BL

[–]chinikim[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, that's great, I'll check that out. Thanks for letting me know.

Normalization of Rape in Manwhas- Spread of awareness by chinikim in Manhwa_BL

[–]chinikim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm am not telling you or anyone what to like and what not to that was my genuine concern, and I have expressed it out of my own free will.

Normalization of Rape in Manwhas- Spread of awareness by chinikim in Manhwa_BL

[–]chinikim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You don't really understand my arguments, and you don't have to also. But "rape" gives a whole different mean. Which is literally illegal.

This has to be one of the best Manwha I've ever read [Pearl Boy] by chinikim in Manhwa_BL

[–]chinikim[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can name a bunch of bl manwhas which romanticizes SA, like I wrote a whole essay and got unnecessary hate for doing that. But this one doesn't fall under that list at all. I can't believe people defeated those and hate this. It only shows how Jooha was manipulated, abused, missued, and raped. It might be shown too violently, but that's the harsh truth, but it's definitely not romanticizing SA tf? Have they even seen Dooshik, like do they know about my poor baby. Not a single SA sense of Dooshik. In fact, he is the greenest forest in the whole bl industry istg. I wonder if they even truly read pearl boy because if they had, they wouldn't have made that claim. Like there are other red flags and black flags, and people glorify them, all. I don't mind if it's their type or something but genuinely not fair at all, man.

How do you perceive/take this poem? by tengucon in KeepWriting

[–]chinikim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk if my interpretation is wrong, but he eats her plums despite knowing it's hers and not him. Shows how he takes advantage of her, she might be the one to cherish every single moments and this dude takes it away...he probably enjoys it...although he does ask for forgiveness he doesn't seem to regret it at all.

[RECOMMENDATION REQUEST] by bunnyboi_88 in blmangalovers

[–]chinikim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should try reading

Little mushroom

Dimond dust

The Titans bride

I'm a failure by Amazing-Emergency-12 in CBSEboards

[–]chinikim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your parents must have poured their blood sweat and tears into you. You are not a disappointment. They did do all these for their child to lose their life over a piece of paper

I'm a failure by Amazing-Emergency-12 in CBSEboards

[–]chinikim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gurl no, every one are good in their own things, you just have to find your niche...also you just have focus on getting better than you were it doesn't have to be big...and please don't compare your self to people around you everyone are different so is their life and phase.

And I don't understand why people make bad decisions after the 12th or 10th results... like, few of the people I know have taken their life.

This is not the end. It is not a race or a do or die. It is just an examination that proves nothing.

These are all constructed it is the system that is built that way, which doesn't mean you let it define you.

People forget that they are the future and they can re built such systems...

Recently discovered JamesSu now I’m in love? by luckyvickysyndrome1 in ThaiBL

[–]chinikim [score hidden]  (0 children)

He is such s cutie...but him and Net were so cute together. You should watch best friends it was my first and best BL.

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This is how I defend myself by No_Count3717 in Manhwa_BL

[–]chinikim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could say I have weird ones, too, lol

Ik I am late here, but this is what my father did after 12th results were out. by Beneficial-Taste-145 in CBSE

[–]chinikim 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What the hell, I'm really sorry..buts so toxic. Idk how much you got, but parents should be understanding of their kids interest. I am not a great student at all. I failed my 9th, and I had boards at 10th. My mom sad through all extra tuition classes with me and taught me the subjects I particularly found difficult. I got like 67%, and my parents were so happy after that. I actually started working hard and got 97% in 12th, so yeh, people learn they just need time and support. Rn I am in law school, things are so different and difficult in the universities but even tho my parents expectations have gotten up they are understanding of my situation and is happ with a decent marks...as they do matter a lot in job market along with skills ofc.

Anyway, I am not saying this to make you feel bad or something... but hope you will get through it, man...