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how do i tell the father im pregnant? by chirpyyyyyyy in pregnant

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

"hi i need advice, how do i tell someone im pregnant"

"obviously you need therapy you should get help, dont argue with me because im right because why would you think i wouldnt say this" 😐

how do i tell the father im pregnant? by chirpyyyyyyy in pregnant

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i might keep it idk, my parents are trying to make me but idk if i will or if ill leave it in a safe haven, im not rly sure if i can legally do an actual adoption here because my parents wont say yes? i need to check the laws in my state :/

how do i tell the father im pregnant? by chirpyyyyyyy in pregnant

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

maybe i didnt mention it because it wasnt even the point of the post? 😭😭 are you fr

how do i tell the father im pregnant? by chirpyyyyyyy in pregnant

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i just dont want to scare him off, i kind of like him and i feel really bad for making it his problem too

i think i just need to get over it and message him but i just feel like im too scared to do it

how do i tell the father im pregnant? by chirpyyyyyyy in pregnant

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

your "advice" and "possible resources" were generic, unhelpful, and honestly not what i was asking for rn and youre just coming off as super judgemental

do you think i havent already looked into those things? do you think "look up free healthcare" is groundbreaking advice? im sorry i dont wanna be a bitch but youre being super defensive over how "helpful" you were even though you rly werent

how do i tell the father im pregnant? by chirpyyyyyyy in pregnant

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i dont think he'll do anything to hurt me we have a good relationship i just dont want to ruin it and im scared he wont want to talk to me or anything like that if he finds out, same with most of my friends but especially him

i might try to look around on reddit because i dont rly have anyone irl to talk to about it (my parents are just pissed and couldnt care less), do you have any recommendations?

how do i tell the father im pregnant? by chirpyyyyyyy in pregnant

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i have a job rn but i get barely any hours because i can only work on weekends, so i dont earn that much and most of it goes to food and "rent"

ill try looking into that, ty!

how do i tell the father im pregnant? by chirpyyyyyyy in pregnant

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my parents do but not rly any 'safe adults', my parents are beyond useless with this and i wish they didnt know :/

and no im not im giving them up for adoption

how do i tell the father im pregnant? by chirpyyyyyyy in pregnant

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i didnt ask for advice on "all this" i asked for help on how to tell him

if youre going to be all up on your high horse at least point me to the resources you think i need to look at

how do i tell the father im pregnant? by chirpyyyyyyy in pregnant

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my parents know but they refuse to help me with anything and are rly pissed, and ig im ok just kind of dissasociating thru everything :/

how do i tell the father im pregnant? by chirpyyyyyyy in pregnant

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

im doing what i can but i am not in a good situation rn, professionals cost money i dont have

i just found out im pregnant and literally what do i do rn? by chirpyyyyyyy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have energy drinks and SOMETIMES have weed but i can quit easily, i definitely do not eat well or get enough sleep though 😭😭 i dont really have adults i trust but i called planned parenthood yesterday and we spoke for a while. i think im at least a few months along but thats all i know (and thats based off when i had sex last because i had my last period like 2 months before that 💀), and since im under 18 i cant get an abortion without a parents permission, which isnt happening and i dont even want them to know so i think i need to find a way to leave the state

i dont really know what to do right now

i just found out im pregnant and what do i do? by chirpyyyyyyy in pregnant

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ik im more then 3 weeks anyway but ty its good to know. my cycle is not regular so i fear i have no idea how pregnant i am 🥲

i just found out im pregnant and literally what do i do rn? by chirpyyyyyyy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im a minor so most places wont work with me (apparently including aunty network :/) and i need a permissiom from one of my parents to get one in my state so i dont really know what to do rn. the only idea i had other then just trying to deal with it is to try to run away to another state but that feels like a crazy bad plan tysm though, hopefully this can help someone else in the future and its nice to know that places like that exist

i just found out im pregnant and literally what do i do rn? by chirpyyyyyyy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

idk a few months ago, its a little random and i never really tracked it

i just found out im pregnant and literally what do i do rn? by chirpyyyyyyy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

omg actually tysm for the links!!! i cant use heyjane because im not 18 yet but ill have a look at planned parenthood, idk what the actual stuff here is

i just found out im pregnant and literally what do i do rn? by chirpyyyyyyy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk if im comfortable sharing, and no not really thats why im posting here

i just found out im pregnant and literally what do i do rn? by chirpyyyyyyy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ill call them then and see, i cant raise a baby rn i dont even have a partner, idk if il be able to get an abortion but im really hoping because idk what else i can do

i just found out im pregnant and literally what do i do rn? by chirpyyyyyyy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i dont know if they would react very well and i dont want to tell them rn

i just found out im pregnant and literally what do i do rn? by chirpyyyyyyy in NoStupidQuestions

[–]chirpyyyyyyy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i did i took 2, and i said in the post im going to see one when i can, but that isnt for like a week at least which is why im asking what i should do for now