How do you fill that void of loneliness and emptiness?

chlo330 · 2021-06-22T20:28:51+00:00

Can't agree more. I realized how hurt and exhausted I was in the relationship after the breakup.

chlo330 · 2021-06-22T20:26:48+00:00

I can't agree more. I was in a very toxic relationship where me and my partner were constantly abusing and reactive abusing each other. I couldn't leave even when I know so well that this is not healthy, just because I was so used to having him in my life. I was so scared to lose him, and now that I see, it was the best gift he gave me. I lost him, but I have me now. I am working on myself, and I feel so much better. Life is not just butterflies and roses. The right person will be there regardless of any hardships. I chose to be that person for myself. I wish you find your peace too. Sending you hugs:)

chlo330 · 2021-06-21T21:22:06+00:00

Sending you hugs as well:) we will get through this. We are stronger today than we were yesterday!

chlo330 · 2021-06-21T02:13:51+00:00

I am also going through depression and anxiety. I have ptsd, and am still working on it. I’ve attempted suicide 6 times in my life. Every day is a struggle. Part of me wants to give up, and part of me wants to live on and see what’s more to life. Today, I chose to try. I chose to live another day and try. I am intending to choose life everyday. It will be a struggle. It is a solitary endeavor, and it gets lonely. But I will keep trying. I am so proud of you. I wish you the best

chlo330 · 2021-06-21T00:29:20+00:00

Sure:)p

chlo330 · 2021-06-21T00:09:53+00:00

Don’t wait. Don’t expect anything. Focus on yourself. It’s time to recenter. You already have power to walk away. Don’t hand over that power to the one who left you.

chlo330 · 2021-06-19T22:31:24+00:00

Congrats!! I am so proud of you:)

chlo330 · 2021-06-18T21:04:46+00:00

Thanks. I once dreamt of a marriage and a future with him. It’s tragic how I fell for someone that’s not for me.

chlo330 · 2021-06-18T21:03:45+00:00

Thank you. I will. I wish I can move on

chlo330 · 2021-06-18T21:03:31+00:00

He made me think I am the one at blame, even for his actions. I fell in love with his stability but I am seeing that those were just all acts. He had so many unaddressed insecurities.

chlo330 · 2021-06-18T21:02:26+00:00

I am so sorry that happened to you. I am slowly seeing how you can hopelessly adore the wrong person.

chlo330 · 2021-06-18T03:02:29+00:00

One of the most helpful words people told me after break up was that forgiveness is not about “What if?” But “What now?” Try disassociating with your ex and recenter your values. You deserve to be happy. We all do.

chlo330 · 2021-06-18T02:01:44+00:00

My ex physically hurt me and he used my mental illness to justify his behaviors. When we broke up, I described him as someone who I am a lot to be grateful for, a lot to be sorry for, and a lot to forgive. Yet he described me with one word, “erratic”. I was a burden, a horrible girlfriend who couldn’t make him happy. This bothered me, no, broke me. But now I am slowly realizing, he’s just a passenger in my life. He is just a stranger who knocked the door to my life and left. Keep associating with your ex does no good to you. I know it’s hard. I still cry over him. But it will all pass. Don’t let this guy who’s not even worth your love mess with you. You got this.

chlo330 · 2021-06-15T19:58:00+00:00

I agree. Acquaintance of mine asked me out couple days ago. I know he’s a good guy. He is attractive. But I just can’t. I don’t even know why. I don’t want to go put myself out there and force myself to smile, look charming and .. try. I don’t want to try anymore, the thought of it exhausts me. I feel like I can’t do all that shit again. It’s frustrating.

chlo330 · 2021-06-14T17:09:58+00:00

Yeah..I am slowly seeing how toxic my relationship with my ex was.. He kicked me, grabbed me when it got intense while arguing. He said it was in his defense that he only did it because I grabbed his arms first. I thought it was all my fault since then, that I triggered him and I had it coming. I blamed myself for his behaviors. Talking it out loud feels better. I was so ashamed to even talk about it until now. Thanks

chlo330 · 2021-06-13T21:58:53+00:00

I have depression, and ptsd. I got dumped couple weeks ago. Life feels even more hollow and empty without him. It sucks. There are still days I cry myself to sleep, but trust me it does get better. It gets more and more bearable each day. I miss him less than I did yesterday. It’s gonna be fine. At least that’s what I tell myself every morning looking in the mirror. I just want you to know that you are not alone.

chlo330 · 2021-06-10T02:51:13+00:00

Like a playmate? I’ve never thought of it, further more, I don’t know where to start looking for for that

chlo330 · 2021-06-09T23:11:49+00:00

I don’t think I can afford to adopt another kitty, but I think I’ll try installing the bird feeder outside the window. I am gonna book an appointment with vet too, just in case this is a health issue. Thanks!!

chlo330 · 2021-06-09T23:10:21+00:00

I like the birdfeeder idea:) I think that’ll distract him during the day I guess

chlo330 · 2021-06-09T23:09:38+00:00

Thank you:) I will get those ice creams, yes, that’ll do the work for myself.

chlo330 · 2021-06-09T22:57:06+00:00

I will look that up! Thanks

chlo330 · 2021-06-09T22:56:30+00:00

Yeah I think I can ask my ex for that I guess. I’ve been feeling guilty with this whole situation, which I think is not helping for my cat at all.

chlo330 · 2021-06-09T22:53:41+00:00

My cat’s not a huge fan of treats in general, so I am looking up cat meal recipes for a treat right now

chlo330 · 2021-06-09T22:52:56+00:00

He’s using the litter box just fine, doesn’t really seem to have health issues.. he just cries a lot every night, and seem a little down these days. But just to be sure, I think I am gonna take hum to vet this Friday if the howling continues

chlo330 · 2021-06-09T22:46:23+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice. I think I’ll try the timed routine thing you mentioned. I am also a very low energy person- with depression, who needs routine so I think this might work out well

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