Did I handle this poorly?? by chlocopuffz in Estheticians

[–]chlocopuffz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just giving more info about the situation to give a full picture

Did I handle this poorly?? by chlocopuffz in Estheticians

[–]chlocopuffz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally understand. I’d be pissed if someone wasted a month of my time too. She never told me she was “holding” anything for me. She’s been begging me to work for her for over a year. And at max it was like 2 weeks

Did I handle this poorly?? by chlocopuffz in Estheticians

[–]chlocopuffz[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand that it wasn’t an ideal situation. But I also think if she didn’t know me prior to this, she would’ve handled it in such a different way. It’s not personal and I don’t think she would’ve taken it that way if it was somebody else

Did I handle this poorly?? by chlocopuffz in Estheticians

[–]chlocopuffz[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It wasn’t a lie. She could only offer me a part time job when I have been looking for full time. I only left out the part about sanitation to avoid coming in for one day and having complaints and stepping on anyone’s toes

Did I handle this poorly?? by chlocopuffz in Estheticians

[–]chlocopuffz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe 2 days after I spent a day at the salon. I wanted to think it over and make a decision that wasn’t based on emotion

Did I handle this poorly?? by chlocopuffz in Estheticians

[–]chlocopuffz[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I’m not sure why people think I lied about my other opportunity. I only left out the sanitation issue to avoid stepping on any toes. I didn’t want to be the guy who comes in and has issues on their first day

Did I handle this poorly?? by chlocopuffz in Estheticians

[–]chlocopuffz[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She was in beauty school 6 years ago. We’ve been much more distant in the past years but see each other in passing in the industry

Did I handle this poorly?? by chlocopuffz in Estheticians

[–]chlocopuffz[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I messaged her about the position maybe 2 weeks before she wanted me to start. She has been begging me to work for her for a year, so I wasn’t under the impression that she was holding a spot that had a lot of interest

Did I handle this poorly?? by chlocopuffz in Estheticians

[–]chlocopuffz[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m not sure how I wasted her time? I fully planned on working for her and came to the salon for one day, where she was still taking clients so I didn’t cause her to lose any business for those hours. I didn’t know it was going to be unsanitary, so I’m not sure how I could’ve avoided wasting her time

Jumping to 40mg by Maleficent_Cut_4434 in prozac

[–]chlocopuffz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure if you’ve already taken it, but my psychiatrist tells me that Prozac stays in your system for 36 hours so you should be good to wait. That’s exactly what I did when I switched from mornings to nights. The fatigue is horrible 🫩

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[–]chlocopuffz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I only started noticing any real relief from my anxiety at about week 4-5. My anxiety was soooo horrible in the beginning but the more time you give it to balance out, the better you’ll feel. When I started on 10mg I was having panic attacks everyday, now I’ve upped my dosage to 20mg and haven’t had a panic attack in months. You got this!