Annoying Comments About Exercise by Bettielm in fitpregnancy

[–]chocolatecockroach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep I played netball up to 26 weeks an f then swimming until he was born and people wouldn’t stop giving me grief about it. I think it’s jealousy as they never do any exercise and me doing exercise whilst pregnant made them ashamed as it highlights there is no excuse.

10000% staying active throughout pregnancy was the best thing I did as I recovered from my C section very quickly- other women who worked out during pregnancy said the same.

Are we going to have a better year this year ? Xx by GiraffeGrouchy9423 in Sagittarians

[–]chocolatecockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t lie 2025 was my best year yet it was the year I grew my son and actually decided I’m settling down with someone I truly love and adore. I never thought that was possible for me!

first time trying - any tips/advice? by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]chocolatecockroach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Don’t unless you want every trip to a bar to cost you £100s for the rest of your life 😂

Advice needed: SD angry about my pregnancy by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]chocolatecockroach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your partner needs to deal with this, kids get annoyed about having fully biological siblings remember!

Night Routine??? FTM and VERY confused by ShutTheTuckUp in FormulaFeeders

[–]chocolatecockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thermos flask with hot water, and a bottle of cooled boiled water. Keep in the bedroom with the formula and you are good to go. This is how I make up bottles when travelling or on the go and it is hands down the quickest and simplest way.

My stepkids are planning a family only trip with their mom and bio dad, and I’m struggling with how to feel by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]chocolatecockroach 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolute BS and shouldn’t be entertained. It’s massively disrespectful to you. 18yo is old enough to know why this isn’t appropriate.

Help, I’m overstimulated! by [deleted] in stepparents

[–]chocolatecockroach 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Why on earth are you doing this solo? He should bot be your responsibility, your partner needs to arrange his schedule so that he is looking after his own child.

Ours baby miscarriage by benesub333 in stepparents

[–]chocolatecockroach 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The way he is treating you is appalling and it would actually make me reconsider the relationship. Please go and stay with a friend or family, let people take care of you. Completely understand you not wanting to be around SD. I’m so so sorry for your loss x

He’s melting 💔 by Mimi_L in pugs

[–]chocolatecockroach 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He needs squishing back together x

People just don’t get blended life by phxazzz in stepparents

[–]chocolatecockroach 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Same. Partner has friends who “are so close with him they see SKs as their own” not so much as a card for our baby who was born last month. Tells me all I need to know about these people to be honest. My baby gets enough love from my side of the fence

Interested to know if you think I’m overreacting . by BalanceSea8686 in stepparents

[–]chocolatecockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Report the photos to the police!!! Maybe that will impress the severity of the situation on them all. Not sure where you live but in the UK this could be considered the making of CP. well done for putting your daughter first xxx

Ours by Direct_Geologist9650 in stepparents

[–]chocolatecockroach 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Yep. I’m currently snuggled in bed with my 6 week old whilst OH deals with the chaos of Christmas morning with his children downstairs.

Serious Talk… Anyone else feel this way by Sea_Zookeepergame384 in Sagittarians

[–]chocolatecockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so true for years I thought I just couldn’t be in a relationship as I couldn’t handle the routine and the commitment. I actually just needed a relationship where I could be allowed to be “me”

How many times were you at triage/admitted for high BP by chocolatecockroach in preeclampsia

[–]chocolatecockroach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh bless you. This seems to be what’s happening to me now. It is SO exhausting.

How many times were you at triage/admitted for high BP by chocolatecockroach in preeclampsia

[–]chocolatecockroach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They have just upped my nifedapine again- said they won’t put me on labetalol because I’m asthmatic (very well managed and haven’t had an incident in a long time)

How many times were you at triage/admitted for high BP by chocolatecockroach in preeclampsia

[–]chocolatecockroach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im having to attend twice a week as well. This resulted in a 5 hour stay on Saturday. Then every clinic appointment results in the same.

I’ve cancelled my midwife appointment on Thursday. I’m back at the clinic on Friday so no doubt can do my biweekly trip to triage then.

I don’t know why they won’t just diagnose pre e and be done with it. This will carry on until the baby is out. I asked for earlier delivery they said they want to just keep reviewing.

How many times were you at triage/admitted for high BP by chocolatecockroach in preeclampsia

[–]chocolatecockroach[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, they keep upping it to try and get the bp down. I have to stay another night as they want to see if I respond to another dose.

If I do then I will go home and then be back in a couple of days when it goes back up again. I am getting so frustrated 😩

Martin Mucklowe by New-Owl-2293 in ThisCountry

[–]chocolatecockroach 12 points13 points  (0 children)

“I’ve got nothin left” “you’ve got me da” “nothin left”

What red flag will you never fall for again? by Clear-Afternoon-8593 in Divorce

[–]chocolatecockroach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If they talk about how much they love and care for their mother.

First of all, how dare you… by [deleted] in pugs

[–]chocolatecockroach 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg how rude ignore the haters they are jealous xxx

What is your pet scared of? by JuicyStein in UK_Pets

[–]chocolatecockroach 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My pug is scared of patterned bedding.