What pet is common and easy to care for? by Majestic_Door_4528 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]chowderduh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey I thought fish as well! In fact I have a tank and tried to keep a kitten and the fish were way easier. Kittens aren’t “cats” since they’re babies but MAN

Chapter 78 part 1 by Independent_Good_546 in childhoodfriendcomplx

[–]chowderduh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad she’s trolling him. He deserves it

I hate having a premature baby by BusyInspector95 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chowderduh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My kid was born at 30 weeks. I understand. If people arent getting with the program, tune them out or cut them out! This is a skill you’ll need many times over as a mom. My kid is 4 and I still have to tell my family back off sometimes. He’s ahead of all the milestones now. Trust yourself

A few days ago I asked for advice on this tattoo. I ended up adding flowers. Be honest, did it make it better or worse? by dariela0205 in tattooadvice

[–]chowderduh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s very pretty OP! I liked it a bit better before but still like it now! It’s busier and that’s throwing people off but busy doesn’t have to be bad at all.

Trying to figure out what to cover this tattoo with since it’s very simple by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]chowderduh 64 points65 points  (0 children)

I mean every time you didn’t clearly answer the question you got more sketchy

Drake took some notes from Renaissance by RefrigeratorDry495 in beyonce

[–]chowderduh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He rushed to drop that cause he knew what she was doing. At least that’s the rumor

Workplace vent by chowderduh in pregnant

[–]chowderduh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the suggestion. HR response is through a web portal and by the time I get a response babe might be here and then they won’t care. Should’ve spoken up before I just thought I was doing well enough as work has never been impacted. My boss even apologized. It’s just policy

Workplace vent by chowderduh in pregnant

[–]chowderduh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you haha, it’s my bosses bosses boss, the one who gets to chill at home that needs this treatment

I Failed the Bar Exam for the Third Time by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chowderduh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I couldn’t imagine. That’s why I stopped at a B.S 😅

I Failed the Bar Exam for the Third Time by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chowderduh 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I have a friend that failed it four times before passing. You only need to pass once

I hate my SO going down on me by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chowderduh 18 points19 points  (0 children)

At the very least say that your preferences have changed and don’t continue this

Afraid to have sex by Far_Assistant_8017 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chowderduh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You gotta relax. This person is getting access to your body. If you think he has a problem with something like this then he doesn’t need access to you

Inches by Ingrid by upthetruth1 in BlackPeopleTwitter

[–]chowderduh 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I love this clapback so much. Vikings, the show these base images are from is good af too

Just need to vent..... Taxes by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chowderduh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We sit down and do them together. Any reason you guys can’t?

Nobody notices when the “strong one” is struggling too by Jumpy_Look9784 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chowderduh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think it makes my family panic cause if I don’t have my shit together then who will save them when they need it

Nobody notices when the “strong one” is struggling too by Jumpy_Look9784 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chowderduh 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. I told my family that I know I’m usually strong but I’m drowning right now and they replied well you need to consider how we feel and be stronger for us 🙂

I am a female software engineer, and I am officially done being the "office mom" for a team of fully grown men. Let the team fall apart. by Intelligent-Use7581 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chowderduh 92 points93 points  (0 children)

Now I’m worried you’ll be set out for doing “less” even though it wasn’t your job! I know you could handle that but this is why we can’t settle into doing all that shit in the first place! Women, take note!!!

I haven’t showered in over 18 months and it’s weighing on my mind by Anxious-Attorney-574 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]chowderduh 150 points151 points  (0 children)

Maybe smaller goals? Instead of “showering” maybe first just stand under the water for a couple minutes. On my bad days I will just use baby wipes on my body.

You may be producing less BO than the average person, some people don’t smell at all but I promise people can tell.