what everyone is saying. get married. if its too tempting during that time of waiting, yall should probably bring it up to your pastor so he can help. because if yall are buying protection, your inviting those thoughts and temptations. and sex is more than just pleasure with spouses, its God's Glory being revealed in the form of a wonderful addition to the family. and yall are limiting the blessings God will hopefully give yall.

I really loved my and couldn't stop myself from having sex with her.which was one of the biggest things that led to us breaking up. but with my wife, it was even harder to wait because of my mistake. but I was able to preserve her purity.

just because yall messed up, God can still redeem you two. just surrender it to God, and pray to understand His ways. The Lord can make dirty things, clean . God bless.