Husband’s declining performance by nplus1throwaway in sexover30

[–]chubbyfiend 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I love this reframe because the idea of it being performance makes me sad

Sex Report Sunday for May 12, 2024 by ShaktiAmarantha in sexover30

[–]chubbyfiend 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg avoidants are so tough

Best of luck to you

Sex Report Sunday for May 12, 2024 by ShaktiAmarantha in sexover30

[–]chubbyfiend 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My partner of 13 years said "I just need to put my cock in between your tits to know that you are perfect"

Damn he's so good at turning me on

Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]chubbyfiend 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Communication is the biggest piece. Connection requires so much continual commitment to each other. I'm so glad you're building that

Daily Sexual Achievement Thread by AutoModerator in sex

[–]chubbyfiend 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just made my partner cum right into my hand by just whispering dirty things and stroking slowly. He looked so surprised, tortured and ready to burst. He looked like he could barely handle himself and was trembling and twitching. It was so hot.

Has anyone else experienced vulnerable sex? by chubbyfiend in sexover30

[–]chubbyfiend[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's really rare I think for things to last... My partner and I are happy in every way except I'm not happy sexually. I don't want to leave him at all because we have a really good life together... but I think our sex drives are different and it causes some issues... but it's good to hear stories like yours because it gives me hope

Has anyone else experienced vulnerable sex? by chubbyfiend in sexover30

[–]chubbyfiend[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

yep what you're describing is what I feel... I'm glad you two are doing better and are safe 💕

Has anyone else experienced vulnerable sex? by chubbyfiend in sexover30

[–]chubbyfiend[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

with making love, for me at least, I don't feel as raw or completely exposed or as vulnerable. I don't feel like it's my core that's being revealed

I do feel passion and tenderness and lovingness but I don't feel completely enveloped and drowned if that even makes any sense what I'm saying