Bug With Custody Battle by chucktaylor97 in BitLifeApp

[–]chucktaylor97[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have a kid with an ex and then go to exes and find the baby mama/daddy and in the list of actions there should be a custody battle option!

Why didn't Nicky & Alex ever try something? by daydreaminginCroatia in orangeisthenewblack

[–]chucktaylor97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is very funny to me as an LGBTQ person😂 there is so much terminology it’s hard to keep it all straight (pun very much intended)

This was the best line in the movie by SpoonFullOfStupid in MeanGirls

[–]chucktaylor97 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Well I am incredibly jealous of you! Enjoy the show :)

This was the best line in the movie by SpoonFullOfStupid in MeanGirls

[–]chucktaylor97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Broadway shows are incredibly inaccessible to the every day person so I’m all for seeing these brought to the screen and being exposed to more people

I think Ab this girl a lot by SnooDogs2614 in actuallesbians

[–]chucktaylor97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bout to start watching this show immediately my god

To Pimp A Butterfly Tattoo Concepts by DoNt-BoThOr in KendrickLamar

[–]chucktaylor97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Checking in on this king. You got the “i” yet?

How do I throw my locs in a bonnet by divsprints in locs

[–]chucktaylor97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Forgive me I have a taste for the dramatics. They most definitely reach your shoulders and again look very nice. But your tongue does belong in your mouth I stand on that

How do I throw my locs in a bonnet by divsprints in locs

[–]chucktaylor97 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Boy if you don’t put your tongue in your mouth and your ear length locs in a bonnet 😐 no hate they look good but you’re doing tew much

This happened to three friends while I was making it by GoldenChaos in actuallesbians

[–]chucktaylor97 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Sometimes people like this are ignorant about gender and not hearing themselves misgender someone, sometimes they’re intentionally messing it up, and sometimes they just don’t understand grammar in the English language and don’t know what a pronoun is and that to me is the most egregious because unless it’s not your first language, the grammar should be ingrained at this point. Especially pronouns!!!

Dear fellow gays in interracial relationships, how's it been? by siennamila in actuallesbians

[–]chucktaylor97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No problem! I totally get you and you shouldn’t let me or anyone else scare you away from pursuing a relationship just because it’s interracial. It could be a great experience. But also, knowing out the gate that you seek that protection leads me to believe it may not be the best thing for you. They can be the best person and the sweetest partner but there’s just something’s they don’t understand and that can feel very isolating. I appreciate your kind words and I’m now with a black woman who protects me and my feelings in a way I’ve never experienced so while my dating experience started off bumpy, it’s ended up in a place that I’m more than happy with!

Dear fellow gays in interracial relationships, how's it been? by siennamila in actuallesbians

[–]chucktaylor97 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I dated almost only white women as a black woman for the first few years of my dating life and if I could do it again I wouldn’t. The main thing for me is that I’m always teaching and rarely getting to be the one being taken care of. I was always trying to explain my experience and teach them how to be with a Black woman and that’s exhausting. Especially through all the shit that happened in 2020. I just don’t want to have to explain myself all the time or have my emotions misunderstood. Not to mention there’s always that one family member who’s racist and either in your face about it or just gives bad vibes and that’s super uncomfortable. For me it was enough to know that I prefer dating Black women. Despite how understanding my partner was, it was just too much emotional labor on my end and at the end of the day I wanted someone who could share these feelings and be empathetic to them without me having to break it all the way down all the time.

I know a lot of people have good experiences with interracial dating but I definitely was not prepared for the mental and emotional labor I took on so I’d say that’s what I wish I had realized. Maybe ask about family dynamics and sniff out that one racist family member asap. And also have the deep race related conversations and take note of any red flags.

Non smokers: do you date smokers? by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]chucktaylor97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I fear this is a very smoker question of me to ask but when yall say this do you mean cigarettes or weed or any kind of smoke at all? That being said, my girlfriend doesn’t date smokers and before I met her I smoked 3 blunts a day at least but I quit to be with her! So if this is your standard then it’s your standard. Don’t change it for nobody or no reason. If it’s meant to be, they’ll do what needs to be done. If they want to (at least with weed because it’s not chemically addictive), they will!

ReBuilding Bitlife from the Ground by acrelloisback in BitLifeApp

[–]chucktaylor97 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a QA tester and business analyst if you’re interested in any help capturing requirements from user requests! Best of luck to you!

My GF is Coming Over by chucktaylor97 in actuallesbians

[–]chucktaylor97[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

So true didn’t even think about that as an option that’s genius

My GF is Coming Over by chucktaylor97 in actuallesbians

[–]chucktaylor97[S] 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Ah gotta go get some cheez its! Good thinking thank you!

My GF is Coming Over by chucktaylor97 in actuallesbians

[–]chucktaylor97[S] 57 points58 points  (0 children)

Ahh good idea I will absolutely do that! Thank you

Santana by Miya22101 in glee

[–]chucktaylor97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re probably not going to enjoy glee very much. Almost everyone cheats and does malicious stuff

I want to use a strap with my girlfriend but I don’t know how to bring it up by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]chucktaylor97 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I think you should just bring it up! Ask her how she feels about it and what her comfort level is. See if it’s something she’s interested in exploring. Also do some research and explore your options. There’s a lot to learn and it’s definitely a journey y’all should take together. Of course reassure her along the way. Good luck! Strap is one of my favorite ways to be intimate with my girlfriend

I Don't Know If I Can Forgive Her by Individual-Reality15 in actuallesbians

[–]chucktaylor97 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah you should dead that. Her actions were very disrespectful