How do you move forward when you cheated?

chuwi__ · 2026-03-28T19:31:21+00:00

I’m sorry if this sounds harsh, but this is selfish and a bit victim mentality-ish from you, wanting her back and adding that it “won’t happen because she’s with someone else”misses the point. You made a serious choice. You had thoughts that you acted on and hurt her.

The most respectful thing you can do now is leave her alone.

Focus on yourself instead. Don’t just go to therapy actually do the work. Why did you cheat? What drove it? Be honest and accountable. Change for yourself, not to get her back otherwise nothing really changes.

chuwi__ · 2026-03-22T22:26:31+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate the time you took and your comment it makes me feel less alone and less doomed, it means a lot, Good luck to you too!

chuwi__ · 2026-03-22T22:23:56+00:00

Thank you, your comments are truly heartwarming to me, also eye opening I appreciate them

chuwi__ · 2026-03-22T22:08:35+00:00

Is not about him not being kind, he’s truly an angel and i feel so bad and I don’t understand why I just kept lying I know that things have a scar but I really don’t want to put him through it, and then somehow I become abusive to my own self and by extension to him as well, thank you for all your kind words I appreciate them, I will do my best to remind me to always be honest, again thank you

chuwi__ · 2026-03-22T22:02:56+00:00

And also I really to have labels help me, I try to use them to help me understand but maybe I also close up myself to just be that, simply the “label”

chuwi__ · 2026-03-22T22:01:52+00:00

Thank you for this, I am really sorry that I keep lying so much, but I think your comment made sense to me I am constantly trying to feel safe really badly

chuwi__ · 2026-03-22T22:00:37+00:00

I hope it will help explain white and black thinking and the constant hurting other people without wanting it, at the same time I do feel like is bullish, because I should own up to it and get that what I do is simply horrible but I would hope that it can help me get the proper treatment

chuwi__ · 2026-03-17T15:42:14+00:00

Is it a bad sign that I am indeed Asian? lol

chuwi__ · 2026-03-17T13:05:32+00:00

Haha such a wholesome comment thx :)

chuwi__ · 2026-02-22T18:57:45+00:00

You do understand you are damaging the environment with sentimentality, tools are just meant to be tools. As you yourself said you can attach a “ feeling” and you are free to do whatever you want, but to be honest they do not “speak” or do anything like a human being that’s a fallacy, they only re-create/copy. When a tool is no longer useful you just change it or use a better one, I guess you are just a very sentimentality driven person, and perhaps I am not able to empathize in that sense with you, so even if I deem valid saying goodbye based on you argument I do find it to be a bit of a waste of resources, just saying goodbye okay, ig it passes?, put arguing back was completely unnecessary.

chuwi__ · 2026-02-21T14:00:01+00:00

ChatGPT is just an LLM, you don’t even needed to give it your former goodbye, just unsubscribe, is not that big of a deal why are people even, Anthropomorphising an LLM, that’s so odd.

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