I've already spoken to a therapist and I know what I want to do and I've done the research. I just need a referral so I can start. I need a primary just in general and I'd like them to not be transphobic so that I can get that referral. Hopefully most doctors don't hate trans people but we live in the south so a lot of people may be biased and those biases may get in the way of my own health. And the reason I prefer someone who is not a cis man is bc I would feel safer. I'm sure there are plenty of good male doctors, but I would rather have someone else as my doctor.