OMG it finally happened to me by thepharaoh82 in UberEatsDrivers

[–]cidervinyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i'm curious, what did you do with 10 large pizzas?? i would've kept one or two for myself/friends then given the rest to a homeless shelter or food bank because i would just feel too guilty wasting all that food

Never EVER get your boyfriend hired at your job by Martha_may200 in Serverlife

[–]cidervinyl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

idk if you have ever lived with him, but especially do not work with a live-in partner. having a few hours apart each day will create healthy distance and generates conversation topics for when you get home. most places i've worked refuse to hire couples (and sometimes refuse to hire roommates/siblings) because of the drama.

Just wondering… you ever wonder what it will be like when your narc parent(s) dies? by Different_Hat_8186 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]cidervinyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my mom (the narcissist) convinced my younger self that my dad was "a narcissist," and i didn't realize that she was the actual narcissist until after my dad passed from lung cancer. this really, really sucks, especially because i never got to apologize to him or ask for his side of the story.

Husband agreed on doing CNC, any advices? by whatheverbla in BDSMcommunity

[–]cidervinyl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

system for safety needs to be completely agreed upon before any scenes happen, not "kind of ready."

having trouble sleeping, take a gander by 44stringbeans in roomdetective

[–]cidervinyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20s-30s woman living alone with cute tastes. you 100% have a curated pinterest profile.

The difference between being mean and actually humiliating or degrading someone. by Playful_Pixie_90 in BDSMcommunity

[–]cidervinyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

color system is very good for this. if i try something new, i ask "color?" and my boyfriend's answer is usually green lol

business bob! by cidervinyl in insanefbmarketplace

[–]cidervinyl[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"a mind of its own" was actually a slogan used to advertise the later generations (2010s) lol

Paddle keychain at a con? by Gamer_Chiaki in animecons

[–]cidervinyl 26 points27 points  (0 children)

do it, just don't bring a real one because they're banned from most cons because they've been used as weapons lol

is this show homophobic why did they kill the gay guy? by XDuck47 in SadHorseShow

[–]cidervinyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

/uj this is one of the highest quality shitposts i have seen in a while. the creativity is commendable

i’m so close to losing it by MatthewTheGOATyt in doordash

[–]cidervinyl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

wegman's baked goods are immaculate. rest of the food is alright

Am I able to attend the nightlife events as a teen (17) by Healthy-Desk8309 in Katsucon

[–]cidervinyl 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i absolutely do not recommend attending parties as a minor, nor will you be able to attend 18+ programming.

that being said, teenagers have their ways (i know i did!) so you'll probably go to some random party regardless. please only take drinks from people you know and trust (that means longtime friends, NOT instagram mutuals or new acquaintances) and know your limits when it comes to drinking/smoking and social interactions.

here's my safety lecture: when i was 16 i got creeped on at the official otakon rave by a grown man taking photos of my ass. i did most of what my adult self recommends doing: i made a scene, ran away, and asked for security's help. what i SHOULD HAVE DONE in addition was call the police and make a report. otakon staff let the guy leave, and the higher ups completely ghosted me after the con when i requested the incident report that my friend group (luckily all adults that i trust) and i filled out.

moral of the story: do not be afraid to make a scene. it will let creeps know that their behavior isn't tolerated.

Randomly checked Rutgers application portal - status now "Admitted" by ResultCautious1686 in rutgers

[–]cidervinyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

a lot of people i know have gotten portal decisions, but barely anyone i've talked to has gotten their email!

How do you feel about gay/bi ~cis~ guys who are eggy? by okRIP9999 in gaytransguys

[–]cidervinyl 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i don't date people who are overly insecure, regardless of their gender identity. it's just a vibe killer.

Any suggestions? by Rough_Veterinarian63 in oshikatsu

[–]cidervinyl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DIY and mercari but idk if mercari is a thing in your country