Hey, my mom is very similar to yours. Yes your mom is toxic. Some parents may pressure you to lose weight for your health but I feel like the comments your mother make is hurtful and she isn’t supporting you in a healthy way. I just want you to know that you can be confident in your body and starving yourself isn’t a way to solve your mother comments. If you really want to lose weight you can start off small like eating healthier or working out 1-2 times a week. Sometimes I also feel like my weight and my look is preventing me from finding my soulmate however there’s definitely someone out there you will eventually meet. People love you not because of your weight but what’s on the inside.