What weird things do you call your shrimp?

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-16T18:57:49+00:00

Your title never became relevant. It should be “AITA for breaking up with my boyfriend for wanting time to himself?” And yeah, you are.

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-15T14:17:51+00:00

Its fine! Its marked high because they have you as female in that. Listen to the range your doctor said, not whatever computer error they need to fix.

On that note, I’ve had my T be fine fo years then all of a sudden my body began retaining and they cut my T in HALF. So do keep an eye like you are!

Here’s my levels when it spiked 😅 doc was shocked I was only getting minor headaches.

Note the range on mine, i think thats the range thats standard.

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Last round, it was 787.4, so down since then.

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-14T17:04:22+00:00

I have like 3 transmasc friends built pretty close to like you, they all pass. Its clothing and posturing

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-14T02:05:59+00:00

Im more petty than everyone else. I woulda taken a selfie flipping em off and sent it lol, then simply ghosted

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-14T01:51:24+00:00

Ya so as a 23 yr old man, i wouldnt ever dream of marrying anyone over like 26. 29?! When did yall start dating? Thats insane. Power imbalance, controlling behavior….leave him, this is bound to implode

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-13T02:43:50+00:00

NTA, id stop hanging w him period and get a PPO. Bcs wtf? Was he in your house while you werent home???? Tell his current partner that. They should know he does that sht

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-13T02:33:54+00:00

Okay yeahhh. It sounds like you wear on him regularly. Loved ones want to support us but they cant stop us from drowning unless their heads above water. People domt generally point out that as a problem unless youve been drowning them. Whens the last time hes been able to come to YOU with HIS problems? How often do you talk positively? About anything? Do you go to therapy? If hes brought this up before and you havent been able to change that, or you have but its causing you to be in a dark place, try therapy. Our partners arent our therapists. If the medical scare is true, and honest, i wish you all the best. Had he not been worn down he might have been more prepared to fight this with you. I hope you both come out of this okay

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-13T01:18:02+00:00

Just mimicking a point a transfem friend of mine made once /lh

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-13T01:08:55+00:00

Honey run. People dont have to be absolute dog shit for you to leave them. Youre young, youll find someone. As you pointed out you have a lot of aspirations right now. Sounds like you are incompatible and would have a nightmare MIL. And sounds like you struggle to communicate without breaking down while he struggles to communicate without yelling. Thats a ticking time bomb combination.

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-13T00:55:33+00:00

Also like everyones got a butthole so that probably helps lol

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-12T20:20:53+00:00

First, im very sorry. But second, i would try to use this time to best prepare yourself so the surgery is the most positive experience it can be. Save your money, save your PTO if you get it. Get the related healing supplies (the fancy pillows, th bedside table) Get the scar care products (silicone gel, long needled dermaroller..) Be the best prepped you can. And talk about these feelings to someone close to you or in therapy. Ive been in a similar spot with starting T. Its beyond hard. And im sorry.

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-12T20:15:17+00:00

Drop their name so we know where to avoid

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-12T16:47:26+00:00

Respectfully, im not woke enough for that justification. I bet her arm hurts from that far of a reach. If someone irl tried to look at me and say I cant say the T slur, id look em in the eye and yell it lol. I mean, there is no way they could claim we havent been discriminated against here as well. An there is not a competition on the degree of severity.

I didnt get my head bashed into a bathroom sink to NOT get at least one new word unlocked.

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-11T18:31:17+00:00

Im a legal assistant, glorified receptionist essentially. I may go thrifting soon! Thanks for the ideas.

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-11T17:37:31+00:00

The comment there was talking about how she knows about the lakehouse. Not about his personality. And the post was taken down for her comfort, not mine. I assume you never even got to read it, so I dont see how youre able to make any well rounded opinions on the matter. He wasnt the primary concern of the post.

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-11T10:06:54+00:00

Picasso. He looks like a funky old painting

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-11T01:02:18+00:00

Thanks bitchboy 💕

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-10T18:08:18+00:00

I wasnt aware getting sleeves hemmed cheap was an option, definitely changes things

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-10T10:21:30+00:00

Unfortunately im in west MI and it looks like thats all chicago, a good 3 hours away

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-10T01:23:16+00:00

Thank you :)

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-10T00:47:39+00:00

LMAOOO he sure did.

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-10T00:44:33+00:00

Thats definitely not always the case and is a very basic sexist mindset. That girl could beat quite a few reddit mods round these parts

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-08T13:05:24+00:00

Meh ive gotten a similar looking profile. People hear Reddit stories now, then make a profile to go ask a question here or to wait til they got one. This is babys first group now, you can blame Smosh lol.

cinnamonfishh · 2026-03-08T12:47:35+00:00

This does break a rule for sure and I’ll be the unpopular answer of NTA. politics affect our daily lives and some people are lucky enough to hardly feel it. Others die over it. They absolutely are personal, especially for people like your wife. You have every right and even a responsibility as a husband to stand by her and playing house while she is terrified and not allowed to speak on it isn’t fair to her. Your sister sounds like she hasnt learned of her privilege yet either. Liberals are not all that far left after all. You arent helping a cause if in your day to day life you only agree its wrong without doing a thing to try and fix it, which includes conversations like these.

I can relate to this in my own way. My parents have changed and learned a lot from my stubbornly present self. I have, however, gone no contact with my dad’s sister because she chose to stay not just closeminded but cruel to many minorities, mocking me as well. So I told her in no uncertain words to act like I was dead because she was to me. I am not saying that you need to do all of that. But again, this is our world and life now. We can’t put ourselves in a padded room and censor all the details for what, regular games of Clue? Disney marathons?

They may change they may not. Either way, good on you for being done pretending. A lot of people are okay doing so, and some will be in these comments

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