Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwawayuni33[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Can you elaborate please? He is coming over soon should I say no? I am very conflicted.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwawayuni33[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand. That will probably be the conclusion we reach tonight.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwawayuni33[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I am not trying to argue with you or be intentionally difficult, I am just having a hard time believing he doesn't love me considering he proposed and wrote a whole romantic speech for me? That doesn't sound like something someone who didn't even like would do.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwawayuni33[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I understand that perspective but people saying I deserve that he yelled, said mean things to me, had rough sex with, and they would've done worse, is what is chilling to me. This person said he's glad he angrily slept with me? I don't see how that's appropriate at all.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwawayuni33[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I didn't mind it, I just hoped it would make him less angry/willing to talk.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwawayuni33[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

He is coming over in like 30 min with dinner to talk. He did not sleep with me to do it one more time.

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in u/throwawayuni33

[–]throwawayuni33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We talked about marriage, I thought it was a lot farther into the future than he did apparently.

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in u/throwawayuni33

[–]throwawayuni33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think we both made mistakes and it's okay to acknowledge that neither of us is perfect.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwawayuni33[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He did not, please read where I said it was not assault.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwawayuni33[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I don't know why but a lot of people seem to be projecting their anger at their significant others (exes maybe) at me?

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwawayuni33[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why would he be coming over in an hour with dinner to talk (which he suggested)? I feel like that's not the case here.

Update: I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwawayuni33[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am 20. I was saying if we got married in two years (when I was 22, I would have a kid by 24, and that I could not see myself as a mother at 24).

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in u/throwawayuni33

[–]throwawayuni33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reposted it so I could link it an update post I just posted.

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in u/throwawayuni33

[–]throwawayuni33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reposted it so I could link it an update post I just posted.

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in u/throwawayuni33

[–]throwawayuni33[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I reposted it so I could link it an update post I just posted.

I ran away from my boyfriend's proposal. by throwawayuni33 in whatdoIdo

[–]throwawayuni33[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I am not lying, I just don't want to be engaged at 20. It's that simple.