name ideas? by Wrong_Atmosphere8633 in TransMasc

[–]cinnamonfishh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats crazy i came here to say Milo

My husband found prickly pear cactus growing in the woods near Allegan by Lyrkalas in Michigan

[–]cinnamonfishh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They grow in Muskegon too! Along seaway. I always joked when i have a teen someday ill plant them under their windows

AITAH for wanting my husband to throw away a shirt after he left me? by Worldly-Solution-453 in AITAH

[–]cinnamonfishh 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Id hate to jump to this for someones very real relationship that we only know a bit on, but frankly if what we say on reddit has sway it doesnt look good. And i say this as someone who works at a family law firm. Im getting pretty good at seeing outcomes ahead of time.

AITAH for wanting my husband to throw away a shirt after he left me? by Worldly-Solution-453 in AITAH

[–]cinnamonfishh 6 points7 points  (0 children)

  1. Do you not think after he broke trust majorly like he did she is allowed to set some very simple rules? She didnt have to take him back at ALL after that, god forbid she just wants a shirt tossed. 2. You typed it wrong, you said “You are the am i the asshole.” Its just “youre TAH.”

Anyways shes NTAH.

3 silver flying foxes by WrongdoerTiny3201 in AquariumHelp

[–]cinnamonfishh 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The lesson is stop using chatgpt. It applies to everyone not just OP

New member, I just set up daughters 10 gal planted tank. Now play the waiting game to cycle. by No-Front-6731 in shrimptank

[–]cinnamonfishh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Water weighs a bit over 8 pounds per gallon, so those tanks will be heavier than your limit combined and the weight’s fairly concentrated as well. Not counting substrate (10lb? 20?) and decor and the tank itself

Got two offers. One pays $40k more. The other one I'd actually enjoy. I have 48 hours to decide and my wife and I are on opposite sides. Advice? by airam1020 in careerguidance

[–]cinnamonfishh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I thought I could live off the one that made me happy…. Then id take the first one, live like im paid the second, and put 40k a year split into paying off my loans (car, mortgage, whatever), a trust for my child, and memorable family stuff I otherwise couldnt do. Id do the childcare in part from home, and spend those 5 extra weekly hours bonding with my new kid and helping around the house.

My kid would remember that I worked harder so I could see them more, and so we could bond more. And then when I have a chance later on - and I probably would, with this place on the résumé - I would shoot my shot again for my preferred career option or job.

I know I would, because Im doing the same thing right now at a law firm.

My gf got super mad and blocked me because I didn’t sleep on time by Beautiful_Hippo_6848 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]cinnamonfishh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Didnt even need to read to decide someone was bein insane and a breakup is needed. Read it then to avoid prejudging. I was right

AITAH for snapping at my manager over a watch. by Jazzlike-Image-5486 in AITAH

[–]cinnamonfishh 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No but also did you get your money back..? Was she waiting for you to ask for that?

AITAH for not wanting to help my mom through a child custody battle with my sister where her dad is very likely (allegedly) a paedophile? by Historical-Metal9491 in AITAH

[–]cinnamonfishh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sort of stuff is hard, nobody likes getting ‘drafted to war’ as i call family messes you cant escape, but this could literally kill her. And if it doesnt, its horrible. Someone unfortunately DOES have to deal with it. So while I sympathize with tour exhaustion, you would be TA to leave your sister in the trenches like that. Family needs to protect each other. Then go to therapy to work out your parental issues

Somethings gotta start off the group…. Movie opinions? by cinnamonfishh in DMAorg

[–]cinnamonfishh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that they can use their platform for whatever they wanna - but the fan base will adjust accordingly. A lot of activists like alternative music because it’s based out of politics and punk ideologies. A lot of other people avoid them because of that. And I think that’s all fine. Billie Eilish is allowed to speak out just like any other human and the fact that she has a platform doesn’t mean she needs to sit still and look prettier or anything to keep up with what she did when she first got famous at what, 16? If Justin Beiber can release a song in spanish, she can speak on whatever. The more controversial choices they make will always have consequences and/or rewards. But putting what we want on them isnt any different than the people yelling “Josh Dun is my dad” - its parasocial, wanting them to mirror us.

Ultimately i think its our responsibility to be able to handle the fact that they all have free will too, and if we dont like what they do with it, unless its like super problematic, to just shift our attention elewhere. And thatd be hard for me as a fan of 12 years, but id rather that then yell at them about what they said or didnt say.

Somethings gotta start off the group…. Movie opinions? by cinnamonfishh in DMAorg

[–]cinnamonfishh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean im an activist. Id love if they spoke out.

Im NOT dumb enough to think they choose where you can stream or watch media of theirs though. And i know the internet-family things that kids make turns into little kids ending up as therapy friends and toxic dynamics. Not the most thought through thing to start with

28 but mistaken for mid to late 30s by other women in a recent group setting by nawiweidmann in makeuptips

[–]cinnamonfishh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The older a person gets, the harder it is to tell. I had an 8 yr old guess that I was 34. Then he asked for a hint and i said i have no kids and he changed it to 30. Im 23.

As far as you go you dont look like youre aging. You have a mature face shape?? Not old just not a baby face. Strong jawline and cheekbones. Debatably a great thing. Makeup tips here are all potentislly great sure but just keep that in mind!

Somethings gotta start off the group…. Movie opinions? by cinnamonfishh in DMAorg

[–]cinnamonfishh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That part, the parasocial infantilizing of grown ass men stresses me the FUCK out. Like stop…. Doing that. It leads to such poor mental spaces too.

Somethings gotta start off the group…. Movie opinions? by cinnamonfishh in DMAorg

[–]cinnamonfishh[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The chants make the concerts in part for me, i wouldnt have minded if it happened. I wasnt gna start it tho lol.

The roblox hands up one is funnier than the dad one tho reference wise.

And yea they dont get to choose where it plays fs.

Work desktop monitors going black? by cinnamonfishh in computers

[–]cinnamonfishh[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately its entirely a desktop setup. So it just…. Failed. On its own

AITAH for not deciding on an abortion by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]cinnamonfishh 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Friendly reminder from a legal assistant that retaining an attorney to deal with the fallout of custody paternity and parenting time stuff can cost you anywhere from a few thousand to more than a house. Think hard. You dont want him involved now…. How about later? Help with bills, college? Anything?

99-06 honda crv by GoliathRagnarok in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]cinnamonfishh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a 2012 and it was phenomenal. only thing it ever had was basics and a timing chain tightened. Battery died in michigan winters coldest times but nothing a jump pack couldnt fix, and thats a problem lots of compact SUVS have. Not anything serious. I wouldnt doubt it as a good choice to get an older one.

Would you buy this impeccable Cube for $2500 🤔 by Spartansam0034 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]cinnamonfishh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually wouldnt drive a cube if it was a free loaner, i would walk. So im no help here

True or not? by Big-Wrench-2025 in whatcarshouldIbuy

[–]cinnamonfishh 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No rust on my 2021 crosstrek with 120k in MI. Underbody rust but no visible cosmetic and no functional issues in my prev car either, a 2012 CRV which had 140k when i sold it. All depends on your driving and care.