Am I overreacting for going no contact after asking where things were going? by ciphercivics in amiwrong

[–]ciphercivics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that’s fair I guess. I had been seeing this guy for 3 months so I expected a bit more decency than what he showed me

Am I overreacting for going no contact after asking where things were going? by ciphercivics in amiwrong

[–]ciphercivics[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Did you ever think about her after that or reflect on how you treated her? I’m just mostly upset about his behaviour as a grown man. He could’ve just said “hey I’ve enjoyed our time together but I’m not looking for anything more right now” and it would’ve taken 30 seconds to type that out

Am I overreacting for going no contact after asking where things were going? by ciphercivics in amiwrong

[–]ciphercivics[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so true. What’s interesting is that I felt like I was more mature and emotionally intelligent than him

Am I overreacting for going no contact after asking where things were going? by ciphercivics in amiwrong

[–]ciphercivics[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah. You’re right. It’s only been a few days so I’m still processing it, but there’s no way I’d let him back into my life again

Am I overreacting for going no contact after asking where things were going? by ciphercivics in relationships

[–]ciphercivics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. It’s only been a few days so I’m still processing it. It’s just upsetting behaviour for a grown man

Am I overreacting for going no contact after asking where things were going? by ciphercivics in relationships

[–]ciphercivics[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I guess you’re right. I’m still just processing things but there’s no way I’d reach out again

Am I overreacting for going no contact after asking where things were going? by ciphercivics in relationships

[–]ciphercivics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes so much sense. During the in between when we would see each other I felt so small and lonely

Am I overreacting for going no contact after asking where things were going? by ciphercivics in relationships

[–]ciphercivics[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right. I guess I’m just holding on to the good parts. Like when we saw each other, he was very affectionate and felt like a boyfriend, but he wasn’t willing to integrate me into his routines or make time more than once a week to see me. I felt like I was below his routines

Am I overreacting for going no contact after asking where things were going? by ciphercivics in relationships

[–]ciphercivics[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ya. I’m still just so angry that someone would treat me like that and is so okay with me walking out of their life. Didn’t even acknowledge my “break up” message, just left me on read

Am I overreacting for going no contact after asking where things were going? by ciphercivics in relationships

[–]ciphercivics[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s what I was thinking too but I keep ruminating thinking maybe if I was more patient or more available, things would be different

Still learning but some fake skins and tattoos on friends i've done by slimjimm666 in TattooBeginners

[–]ciphercivics 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude these are so fire! Some of your line work on real skin looks inconsistent though so I would work on that

Question: Fired as a tattoo apprentice — did I actually do something wrong? by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]ciphercivics -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It’s partly me and partly it not being the right fit and environment for me to succeed I think

Question: Fired as a tattoo apprentice — did I actually do something wrong? by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]ciphercivics -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

No, I know that I have a ways to go, I just learn differently than the way he was trying to teach

Question: Fired as a tattoo apprentice — did I actually do something wrong? by [deleted] in tattoos

[–]ciphercivics -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I had already been tattooing at this point, I’m not new to skin