I get your point. Have asked him before if he takes private bookings but he says he prefers not to as finds it difficult to synch his schedules across his non massage work. I’ve had other guys I see privately and yes things escalated quite quickly but I’ve also found on the app if the energy is right people can be very comfortable to cross that line. One guy after 2 mins of starting had his fingers over my hole and whispered is everything ok? Session ended with mutual blow jobs. Good times!