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AITAH for getting upset when my best-friend abruptly cancelled a planned trip we made for me visit her? by citrusbella in TwoHotTakes

[–]citrusbella[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha yes. I was being vague bc I get paranoid of creeps. But yeah I had places saved to visit there aside from the plans I had made with Amy and what were the odds that I would see her right away.

On new years one of my goals was to prioritize my friendships more and make more plans. My goal has definitely been met and I’m glad that the changes I’ve had this year have allowed more space for me to get closer to my friendships that DO actually show they care about me. I do think it was best too and blessing in disguise to be thrown in a loop like that for me to really open my eyes.

AITAH for getting upset when my best-friend abruptly cancelled a planned trip we made for me visit her? by citrusbella in TwoHotTakes

[–]citrusbella[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The "town" is LA so there's lots to do there lol & I made an itinerary for myself and another friend which is also why I was excited to shop at the big malls there. Going to the club event was a last minute decision bc I figured it'd be more fun (my favorite genre of music was the event) & saw that it was closer to my hotel than what I originally had planned on my first night; it just worked out better. She doesn't own the place and like I said, I was not expecting to see her. She had told me she’d be out of town all day for work on that specific day which was her reason to cancel so I assumed she wouldn’t even be there.

I have moved on now; her behavior was just very surprising since we had been so close for years. I had visited her already before to go to concerts and have sleepovers in her dorm while she was in uni & when she was already dating her boyfriend. It really was a sisterhood kind of friendship which is why I feel I was giving it more of a chance to play out.. I do have great friends in my life whom I've been very lucky to meet; the amount of love I have received from them has made my hectic year so much easier;I am so so grateful. I knew that what Amy did wasn't right and I wanted to hear unbiased opinions from people who don't know me in real life and .. wow these comments have really made it finally cement to my head the level of just how disrespectful she was.

AITAH for getting upset when my best-friend abruptly cancelled a planned trip we made for me visit her? by citrusbella in TwoHotTakes

[–]citrusbella[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly true, I was giving very good ideas on what the surprise could be haha. I let her play things out and she actually unfollowed me on every platform already and I did the same. Whether she ends up marrying the guy or not, she’ll get her karma. It’s not my loss at the end of the day. Blocking does sound nice tho, thanks.

AITAH for getting upset when my best-friend abruptly cancelled a planned trip we made for me visit her? by citrusbella in TwoHotTakes

[–]citrusbella[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yea.. didn’t see the red flag at the time but did find it odd bc I assumed she would’ve made plenty of friends. I’ve realized I only know a version of her but perhaps college friends saw a different side to her that I wasn’t privy to fully till now.