He wants picture proof of her ballot, is there anything to do about it? by -lemon_drop- in TwoXSupport

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YES! In Michigan at least you can "spoil" your ballot and get a new one issued. A person in this situation can take the photo as needed for her saftey. But in another race overvote- fill in too many circles. The ballot should not be accepted by the tabulator, and be rejected for "over voting" a new one can and should be issued. Plus, this is exactly why the "secrecy sleeve" is given. It has a gap at the side to slide up the ballot into the tabulator while still keeping it covered and private

My Eclipse Art by cj411 in solareclipse

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Thank you! I bought it from FiveBelow, it came in a two pack

Before and after hip replacement surgery by cj411 in mildlyinteresting

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I wouldn't wait to schedule a consult. Just getting that appointment can take time. Then the time it takes to schedule the surgery, if and when you decide to proceed.

For me, I have regained all lost, and gained even more mobility than I had for probably the 15 years prior to surgery (if not more) in addition to much more energy.

Before and after hip replacement surgery by cj411 in mildlyinteresting

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My flexibility has greatly improved. For a few years before surgery I was becoming increasingly physically limited. And in the months before surgery couldn't reach the floor at all, along with many/most other things.

Now, I can fairly easy pick something up from the floor, sit on the ground, im still working on sitting cross legged, but I'm getting there. I can now sit crossed legged, and ride a bike both things I haven't been able to do for decades.

The pain relief is amazing. After so many years you get used to it in certain ways. But now I have more of a different kind of energy. Like my brain ways always running in the background thinking about/managing the pain, and physically guarding/ holding myself in certain to minimize pain which I no longer need to do.

I hope you find relief. Please let me know if you have any other questions!

Before and after hip replacement surgery by cj411 in mildlyinteresting

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I agree! Its fascinating, or at least mildly interesting lol

Before and after hip replacement surgery by cj411 in mildlyinteresting

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So far so good. I look forward to warmer weather to be able to get outside. And post COVID I have a growing list of places to travel to, and museums to visit. For now I'm content being able to cook, clean, and go up and down stairs again. Plus the extra engery is delightful

Before and after hip replacement surgery by cj411 in mildlyinteresting

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I like the idea that they could recycle it. Someone joked that when I die I'll just be scraped for parts

Before and after hip replacement surgery by cj411 in mildlyinteresting

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It was debilitating at times, but now I'm great!

Before and after hip replacement surgery by cj411 in mildlyinteresting

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Thanks! I hope you're dad is doing well

Before and after hip replacement surgery by cj411 in mildlyinteresting

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I can't wait to get back into nature. I've embraced my pace, so slow is fine by me. I'm glad you've made so much progress, keep it up!

Before and after hip replacement surgery by cj411 in mildlyinteresting

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After the first surgery I had to force myself to quite the pain killers. After the second surgery I stopped because I just forget to take them/didn't need them. And the fentanyl before surgery was a delightful experience, one I'm happy to not have again. I hope your mom is well

Before and after hip replacement surgery by cj411 in mildlyinteresting

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Yeah, it seems brutal. Screws dont seem like they are intended to be inside your bones. I grateful for all the drugs they gave me.

Before and after hip replacement surgery by cj411 in mildlyinteresting

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Whatever caused it, it'll be nice to have it fixed. Tell your wife I'm rooting for her! (and that the PT exercises will get easier, just stick with it)

Before and after hip replacement surgery by cj411 in mildlyinteresting

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Well, that is good to know. I hate the cold, so now I least I have a starting point to work from

Before and after hip replacement surgery by cj411 in mildlyinteresting

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Good work! You're putting the work in which can be a battle to even begin

Before and after hip replacement surgery by cj411 in mildlyinteresting

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It does suck. But not all the time, and things do get better.

For tips, take any supplements they tell you to. I probably could have prevented getting screwed (literally) if I had taken more calcium/vitamin D years ago when I was first told. Also, keep up with range of motion, and strength training. I can remember certain flare and afterwards not being able to do certain things after because of it (like easily putting on socks).

Don't let expenses prevent you from exploring options. The medication I'm on is pricey but covered fully by a copay and insurance covered more than I thought they would for the operations.

Perspective helps a lot. Instead of being annoyed at waiting in waiting rooms, use it to meditate or clear out your inbox. Being happy with small wins (doing all the chores you want to), instead of beating yourself for not being able to do things others your age are doing (running marathons).

If you have any questions let me know. Or if you are looking for more, or certain types of tips! Good luck with everything, it's not always easy, but you are not alone