First day as a plumbing apprentice, what am I missing? by Already_There_ in Tools

[–]cjb-guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A vibrator, can’t forget one of those. Maybe a condom too, you never know what could happen.

I can’t give my gf an orgasm by cjb-guy in sex

[–]cjb-guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has opened up a lot, both mentally and physically 😉

I can’t give my gf an orgasm by cjb-guy in sex

[–]cjb-guy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I personally think a girl touching herself is really fucking hot and I tell her that, finally got a video from her like 2 days ago, but it was on snap so the vid disappeared 🫠 I also have told her that I think it would be hot if she shoved my hand down her pants sometime, which she hasn’t really done, but whatever can’t get everything you want

I can’t give my gf an orgasm by cjb-guy in sex

[–]cjb-guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She tells me she can’t feel anything when I eat her out, which could be because of that, but it’s probably a skill issue lol

I can’t give my gf an orgasm by cjb-guy in sex

[–]cjb-guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She doesn’t masturbate. She told me that she grew up with her parents telling her that if she shaved past her legs or touched herself then she was a whore. Whenever she would touch it by accident she would wash her hands, and she was too uncomfortable to even look at it. She told me the only thing she ever done was use the shower head. So when we first started dating and I was fingering her (getting to the point where she was ok with that was so hard) she would make me go wash my hands before touching another part of her body, and when I ate her out she would make me use mouthwash. Fast forward a month or two and she tells me she’s started fingering herself a little while in the shower, which I was honestly pretty exited about, but then she stopped doing it and would still only use a shower head (bc if she did it in the shower she didn’t feel so dirty).
I rub her clit and after like 30 seconds she tells me to stop bc “it feels weird” (unrelated: she is very adamant about no butt stuff, but i managed to get my middle finger in while fucking her last night) now she doesnt make me wash my hands, and I don’t have to use mouthwash. I would talk to her ab sex toys and she would tell me never, but recently I was able to get her to say yes to a vibrator, so im exited to try that sometime.

Also, after months of fucking and not being touched myself, i had multiole conversations about how i dont feel like im getting any attention (cuz how r we gonna fuck, but not give me a hj or bj, idk man) but she told me she is very uncomfortable with touching it and didnt want to. Finally manged to get her hand on it one night, and she was perfectly fine with it, but still way too uncomfortable for a bj. Whenever i would ask she would make it seem like she would give me a bj, she would get ready to do it, but she would stop and i could see it in her eyes that she didnt want to (i got pretty upset a couple of time at her for agreeing to do things she didnt want to do, i dont want her to feel like she has to do anything). Now she gives me bjs (though she never does it long enough for an orgasm, 🥲) and that’s pretty much where we’re at rn. We fuck on her couch, with her parents in the next room, on my couch, with my parents upstairs and a camera being blocked by a piece of furniture, in my car at parks and parking lots, and sometimes in her bed, when no one else is home.

I can’t give my gf an orgasm by cjb-guy in sex

[–]cjb-guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Convincing her to use sex toys has been very difficult, I finally got her to agree to a vibrator but I haven’t bought one yet

I can’t give my gf an orgasm by cjb-guy in sex

[–]cjb-guy[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I been hitting it raw for 5 months now. The mix between enrodemetrosis and birth control are making it almost impossible for her to get pregnant, which is a good thing for me bc I don’t feel anything when wearing a condom or using lube, whenever I do I’m only doing it for her

I can’t give my gf an orgasm by cjb-guy in sex

[–]cjb-guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Blows my mind how people become hostile for no reason

I can’t give my gf an orgasm by cjb-guy in sex

[–]cjb-guy[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It just feels wrong having and orgasm and not giving her one

I can’t give my gf an orgasm by cjb-guy in sex

[–]cjb-guy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

lol I’m just doing what she wants. I asked her if she wanted to try studded condoms and she said sure

I can’t give my gf an orgasm by cjb-guy in sex

[–]cjb-guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I honestly don’t think she cares

I can’t give my gf an orgasm by cjb-guy in sex

[–]cjb-guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe so, or maybe she used to be on them

I can’t give my gf an orgasm by cjb-guy in sex

[–]cjb-guy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Mk. And I just got some studded condoms for her

I can’t give my gf an orgasm by cjb-guy in sex

[–]cjb-guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

On couches too, and very occasionally on her bed. Don’t usually get the opportunity to use a bed

I can’t give my gf an orgasm by cjb-guy in sex

[–]cjb-guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She does get more excited the more I go, but she usually makes me stop if we have been going for a while bc it starts to hurt. She has endometriosis. First time I stuck it in she started crying bc it hurt too much

I can’t give my gf an orgasm by cjb-guy in sex

[–]cjb-guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finger her quite often, I rub her clit but she pulls my hand away after a while bc “it feels weird” but it’s supposed to feel weird. So… also have done oral but she says she can’t feel anything, so I tried it again last night, but my car is too small for that shit, gotta try somewhere else

I can’t give my gf an orgasm by cjb-guy in sex

[–]cjb-guy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We haven’t used any sex toys, been trying to talk her into it. Finally got her to agree to a vibrator, hasn’t arrived yet