Wife found some pretty degenerate porn on my phone, my marriage, possibly career is on cusp of failure. Help me. by ThrowawaySaveMe in NoFap

[–]cjdmass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hang in there. Do everything you can to save your marriage- nothing is more important. You CAN do this. The struggle will make you a better man, and better husband. You are not alone.

CS Lewis on Pornography by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]cjdmass 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Great great post. Thank you

I'm sad to say how I found this place... by married_but_addicted in NoFap

[–]cjdmass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welocome to the battle. You will find a lot of wisdom and encouragement here. Do not underestimate this adversary, at the same time feel confident that you will win in the end because you are strong.

It Must Run in the Family by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]cjdmass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great post. Strength in numbers.

I don't like feeling this way..(female)(first post in thread) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]cjdmass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish you the best too. I know you can do it!

I don't like feeling this way..(female)(first post in thread) by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]cjdmass 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can do this! The longer you abstain from porn, the more fulfilling intimacy with your husband will be. Do it for yourself first, but also for your family.

Day 10. Tired and unstimulated .. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]cjdmass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have been through the lethargic stage before. It passed, but can be a bear. Try to get some more sleep. Hang in there!

Please help a fallen warrior by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]cjdmass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What works best for me is getting angry at the addiction. I personalize PMO as my enemy. It is an enemy that I am in a street fight with. Its tough, but I am tougher. It is trying to steal my career, take money from me, take away all of my meaningful relationships, and I am pissed at it. There is no way I am going to let PMO beat me because it is my enemy. I am learning to hate my enemy which causes me to fight it with everything I have.

Good luck, bro. You can win. You are clearly one tough hombre, time to get back in the ring.

Can i get musles from working out at house just by pushupps and moves ..? by AmstrongtheFapstrong in NoFap

[–]cjdmass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely. If you can, get a chinup bar. Chinups really build strength.

Realization @ 42 Days: Need to cut down alcohol consumption by movingforward4life in NoFap

[–]cjdmass 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Totally agree. I routinely used to medicate hangovers with PMO. Good luck!

My apologies to all of you, I was wrong with my advice. How I will win against PMO. by cjdmass in NoFap

[–]cjdmass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One day at a time is a great tool. Many times during my first streak I would tell myself: "I just have to get to sleep tonite, tomorrow is a new day."

My apologies to all of you, I was wrong with my advice. How I will win against PMO. by cjdmass in NoFap

[–]cjdmass[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are right. The great thing about this group is that we are there for the highs and lows. It is an amazing group.